My bf and i have been together 51/2 years and living together 3. He use to be on and off about marriage and always tease me about getting me a ring every christmas but say at least 5 years we needed to be together , up until last year. He started bringing kids/marriage up more but Our 5th year came..nothing. so i asked him "what happened to 5 year thing"..he said "well its not exactly 5 years"(a week away).
recently he has been hanging out with his guy friends at least once-twice a week and they are all 20..21..considerably younger which makes me worried because they are all single and all they care about is car stuff. So my bf is gone car crazy buying stuff..he says he doing it cheap..fine okay but we need to save for our own place..i don't want to be living with relatives for another year. He swears he is saving for our place and "something else maybe"..but won't tell me what that is...he says its nothing to do with cars.
I did ask him one day what he meant a couple months ago when he said something that sounded like he wasn't sure about marriage with me so i sat him down and asked him straight out what did he mean!? and he laughs and says "i did not mean it like that, if we could be engaged now i would, but i gotta save"...so im like okay
Idk what to think..if he really wanted to marry me why is he taking forever?! we are almost 6 years
