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Anyone out there doing the all in on invites? The ones where its the wedding invite and you just rip off the bottom part and fill out the accept/ decline part and send it back. Just wondering if when...

So I just got married this weekend, and one of my bridesmaids did not give me a wedding gift (or even a card with well wishes). She paid almost nothing for my wedding. She claimed she was sick and...

Hi all! My fiance and I are looking into a honeymoon in the South Pacific (either Bora Bora/Moorea) or Fiji for our honeymoon next year. There is SO much information and I need help! Has anyone gone...

Where are you going/where did you go for your honeymoon? In what month? Any exciting excursions you're planning to do? I am in the beginning stages of planning the wedding and we are thinking of...

Hello! I have planned most of the seating chart for my wedding, and so wanted to get started on the seating cards. I'm unsure exactly what the etiquette is, and am hoping you can help out! Do I give...

Okay so help I need some advice! My fiancé and I are having a wedding and we really wanted to rent a house the weekend of the wedding with all of our bridesmaids and groomsmen and their dates and...

Hi folks! As two adults strapped down hard with insane student loans, i know if we scape together enough for a downpayment for a house here in the midwest, we'd still need to have a mortgage (which...

How soon before or after your wedding did you and your FH start putting your bills together? My FH is 25, and has been living on his own for 2 years. I'm 21 and still live with my parents, and all my...

I was hoping to get onto my thank you cards and not let them pile up by writing them as I get our gifts. However, I am now wondering is it rude to have opened the gifts before the wedding and sending...

Hi, so this may be a sensitive subject but the advice I got from people too close to the situation isn’t sitting right with me so I wanted to see what you would do? I got married last week, and about...

I love this guy to death. We've been friends since high school. He has a "big" personality, lol. Last year he decided to move to Hawaii on a whim, and he's freaking out about the costs of coming back...

My wedding is 5 weeks away (gulp!) and we received an RSVP with a check. The guest is not able to make it, and I am wondering if we are supposed to wait until after the wedding to cash it. I don't...

I'm hoping this post doesn't result in negativity though I know I run the risk of attacks here. The title may make me sound greedy, superficial and ungrateful but I promise I'm not. I'm incredibly...

My FH and I opted for a small wedding at the Cliffs of Moher in Ireland next year in May. We gave our 35 guests a year plus time in advance to know this. Since our wedding is so small, we opted not to...

My Fiancé and I are having a bit of a conflict when it comes to deciding the location of our wedding. We are both military and are stationed in Florida, and planning for a October 2019 wedding....

Hi all- 22 days to go! I’m constantly checking the weather because for a week now it’s been saying it will storm on my wedding day!!! 😰😱😰😱 I know 3 weeks out is a bit far to actually trust this but...

We got married about a week ago, and I was wondering.. should I send a thank you card to everyone who came? Or just those who gave us gifts? (Which, interestingly, very few did..) thanks, everyone.

So I am wondering how long you ladies waited till after you got engaged to start talking with FH(or partner) about planning a wedding? It's been almost 3 weeks for me and I'm chomping at the bit, but...

Has anyone done or is planning on doing a cigar bar at their wedding reception? My FH really wants to do it but I have no idea where to start so any suggestions on where to get stuff and so on will be...