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Pirate & 60s Bride

I'm an offbeat 40+ bride! My hubby & I designed an upscale DIY Pirates of the Caribbean inspired wedding in a Napa wine cave (then a 1960s "Rat Pack"... View More

I'm an offbeat 40+ bride! My hubby & I designed an upscale DIY Pirates of the Caribbean inspired wedding in a Napa wine cave (then a 1960s "Rat Pack" reception in Temecula two months later). Amazing. Worth the wait to meet the right match; our wedding was way more creative than I could have ever dreamed. Happy newlyweds.

Happily married 🎉

March 20, 2017

2615days 4hrs
Evalix
Disillusioned Mesh
Evalix, on December 30, 2023 at 1:12 AM

I honestly just feel so dumb right now. I have only been to one wedding over 20 years ago in my mom’s backyard for a little background on how much I know about weddings. I fell in love with this...

Jennie, Feb 12, 2024 12
Rose
Long vs short veil !? Help !
Rose, on February 3, 2024 at 9:23 AM

My dress still needs altered but do you guys like the longer or shorter veil better ? Thank you ♥️

Frederic, Feb 6, 2024 7
D
Dress advice! Feeling regret
Dawn, on February 2, 2024 at 11:54 AM

My fiancé and I had a venue at a Spanish Renaissance style museum. Originally I wanted something fitted with a train. On where I completely changed directions, and ended up purchasing a full ball...

Mrs, Feb 5, 2024 5
Andrea
Bridal portraits
Andrea, on November 16, 2023 at 10:13 PM

I wasn’t planning on doing a separate bridal portrait session, but our photographer includes it for a very small fee and my fiancé talked me into it. Now I don’t know what to expect. I won’t have a...

Andrea, Jan 19, 2024 8
L
Looking for my wedding dress....
Lacey, on January 16, 2024 at 10:34 AM

This is the wedding dress I'm currently looking for....but the website I'm finding it on. I'm not sure if it's legit or not. Is there a way to have someone create this dress or find it somewhere...

Michelle, Jan 21, 2024 5
Pat
Engagement ring - choice or surprise?
Pat, on January 15, 2024 at 11:06 AM

Did you have a say in your engagement ring design? Did you discuss your vision ahead of time with your FH? Or.... was it a total surprise (and were you happy with it?)

Karina, Jan 24, 2024 31
J
Dress too plain/revealing?
Jordan, on January 9, 2024 at 12:38 AM

Hi all- This is a semi repost of another discussion what was deleted. I've come to love this general style of dress as it is suitable for my body type, but am worried that it is too plain and too...

Pirate & 60s Bride, Jan 13, 2024 12
Abbi
Alterations to mesh illusion with appliques and beading
Abbi, on January 10, 2024 at 2:13 PM

Would alterations be able to replace the mesh illusion color from ivory to nude? The front seems like no problem, but the back and straps have lots of appliques and beading. Wedding is in 11 weeks! ...

Michael, Jan 11, 2024 4
Jenna
Boho Wedding Dress Help!
Jenna, on January 10, 2024 at 3:48 PM

I am probably the most indecisive bride when it comes to dresses. The one on the right was custom ordered from Etsy I love it but it doesn't feel flattering on me or very bridal because it is...

Cassandra, Jan 11, 2024 7
GoldenJoy24
Fiance's Family & Comments on Wedding Costs
GoldenJoy24, on January 6, 2024 at 1:22 PM

I'll be getting married in my fiance's hometown later this year. I wouldn't say that I am from the "city" by any means but I have lived a lot of different places around the world, love to travel, and...

CM, Jan 14, 2024 7
Brittani
Are these colors tacky?
Brittani, on January 4, 2024 at 10:55 PM

Hey everyone! I'm planning my wedding for 2025, haven't nailed down a date yet but thinking either spring or fall. The band on my engagement ring is turquoise so I wanted to include that color in the...

Bridgette, Jan 15, 2024 26 1
E
Concerns about non-white wedding dress?
EM, on January 5, 2024 at 3:21 PM

Getting married this year. I'm quite opposed to traditional gender norms, but I'm also not queer (I dress like a not-very-feminine woman) and I don't have a big bold/colorful personality (I'm a pretty...

Michael, Jan 15, 2024 7 1
M
Where do i start?
Magaly, on January 2, 2024 at 11:51 AM

Planning to have a small, intimate low budget wedding however I cannot decide where to start ? Can someone help?

Michelle, Jan 14, 2024 9
Savannah
Registries Usage
Savannah, on December 30, 2023 at 5:44 PM

For people who have lived together already, how do you feel about wedding registries? Do you think it is still helpful to make them and if so do you prefer to do the traditional store ones or the new...

Katlyn, Jan 13, 2024 10
K
Dress
Karen, on December 19, 2023 at 8:05 AM

So I am not someone who ever felt comfy in a dress. I am now trying to find a wedding dress and I'm struggling. Anyone else like this? Any advice please?

Michelle, Dec 31, 2023 10
Victoria
Extremely Tight Budget
Victoria, on December 19, 2023 at 10:56 AM

We have an extremely tight budget. Anyone else here with the same? We'll have a small guest list (about 25), only having a 2 person bridal party (if at all), and I found a dress that I may alter a...

William, Jan 15, 2024 11
B
Feeling guilty over not meeting family's expectations regarding some guest's getting invited
Barbara, on November 28, 2023 at 6:25 AM

I am getting married this year in the city where my parents live, mostly because the weather is much nicer and a big part of my family lives nearby, but also because my fiance and I love traveling and...

Pirate & 60s Bride, Dec 26, 2023 7
D
Help! Not in love with any of my venues!
DiDi, on December 13, 2023 at 8:30 PM

Hey guys, I am not in love with any of the venues we've narrowed down to. Should we just settle one of those since timing is not really flexible? Or should we just do a courthouse/elopement first and...

Michelle, Jan 1, 2024 11
Lisa
Hallmark Date Nights
Lisa, on December 13, 2023 at 11:25 AM

The holiday season has got me thinking about holiday date night ideas, and figured I'd ask WeddingWire for inspiration! It's the time of year when the Hallmark channel is full of holiday-themed love...

Pirate & 60s Bride, Dec 21, 2023 4
Megan
Winter wedding
Megan, on December 16, 2023 at 8:30 PM

Hello! So we are planning on having a winter wonderland/christmas themed wedding next year and I would love some ideas

Iliana, Dec 22, 2023 5 1
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