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Hi all! So going to a destination wedding (~2 hr flight minimum for most guests) at a really swanky 4-5 star resort. We are invited to reception only as I’m guessing the couple want the ceremony more...

Okay so I've seen multiple places where people say that the only responsibility of the MoH/BM is to show up in the dress/tux picked by the bride/groom. When did this become the norm? Traditionally,...

Okay so here goes. My Fiance and I decided..with the bridal parties help...that we would throw a Jack and Jill. We are paying for the wedding ourselves..because my mother is not helping and my future...

Hi everyone, My fiance and I are torn and have a question regarding etiquette for this... So we knew from the start that we wanted a Jack and Jill shower. I don't want a bridal shower at all. However,...

So my wedding is almost 1 month away!! And no one seems to care at all. I feel super alone and none of my friends or bridal party seem to want to help. I am one to do most things on my own and haven’t...

Hey there, So I just have a question for you guys. I see ALOT of incredibly rude comments when people throw around the idea of doing a cash bar. Its almost like jumping into a pool full of paranas...

Honestly I am trying to keep this wedding small and the least expensive possible. I’m doing a rule that is no boy/girlsfriends at my wedding. Honestly I dont care how long they’ve been together unless...

We may have a large church wedding. Say between 120 to 300 people. We will be having a smaller reception for family, wedding party and close personal friends. What do we do with the other guess that...

Our good friends (bridesmaid and groomsman) recently had their baby. She will be 6-months old by the time the wedding comes around. We asked them to be in the wedding right before they knew they were...

Hey Wire, I have lurked on these forums for a while and was hoping to get everyone's cents. My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and lived together for 4 months. He comes from a large...

Hi ladies! Just a topic out of curiosity . Have you had a conversation with your FH about having kids? Do you plan to try and have kids right after marriage? Wait a few years? Do you already have kids...

We are getting married the day before the reception and the reception itself is more or less a courtesy to our families. We just want a big get together to celebrate. But on my side there are a lot of...

Hi! We decided to have a small amount of bridesmaids/groomsmen for a few reasons. We have a MOH (my sister), 2 bridesmaids (my longtime bestie and my brother's wife), Best Man, and 2 groomsmen. My...

1) It’s rude to ask for money. 2) All your bridal party has to do is show up to your wedding. 3) Do an open bar / at least a beer and wine option. What other advice will you definitely get on here?...

Hey how do you guys feel about having a bridal party dance? Having best man dance with maid of honor and stuff like that. I’m thinking about it but I’m pretty sure that most of my bridal party won’t...

We are having a dry wedding (besides for champagne for toasts) - what ideas do you have to make the wedding more fun?

Hi everyone so I have a question for all the ladies .So I’ve been reading and I have realize that a lot of weddings these days are not doing the Garter takeoff or The bouquet toss.I really want to...

Hi so I had decided the wedding date to be May 30, 2021 because that is our anniversary date and I would love to get married on our anniversary. I also saw it as a good weekend to do so since that...

I had a couple deaths in the family recently, when we get married, it'll be 10 months since my grandmother passed away. My fiance had an uncle pass away less than a year ago as well. We want to honor...