Discussions I've participated in

Hi so my fiancé and mom are in a bit of a disagreement. Originally we were just going to have a bridal shower but I later decided I wanted a co-Ed wedding shower so me and my fiancé would open gifts...

For rehearsal dinners, are you suppossed to invite spouses of your bridesmaids or groomsmen if they arent apart of the wedding? What is the etiquette on this? Unfortunately i do not like one of the...

I had to come on here to vent. My DH went to a wedding over NYE (6 months ago!!) several states away. It was for someone who I had been very close with at one point, even though I was hurt that he and...

What type of wedding photography are you choosing? I'm a little torn. I have a friend that has been doing photography for years and her style is the dark and moody type. I was originally wanting the...

My parents, my mother more particularly, is super religious. I am not, I'm an atheist - though, my mother doesn't know it. I have been working on writing the ceremony and had never even considered...

Did anyone ever take post marriage counseling? If so, do you have any advice?

I see this question on the forum a lot and after my experience, I have to say: it's not a problem with the kids, it's parents. GET READY FOR A RANT. In my wedding we graciously allowed the grooms side...

As we all know the cost of venues can be pricey. Has anyone had success with negotiating those cost down? If so how did you do it? What did you compromise on? What words or phases did you find help? ...

I had told a photographer I’ve used previously “when we have the deposit we will for sure be booking you”. I’ve since found a photographer that will shoot ALL DAY for $350. The first...

One of our vendors had a clause in our contract that we cannot post negative reviews online. We ended up having a negative experience with them we feel other people should know about. Has anyone ever...

So we have been paying our photographer every week. She had an amazing package hair, make up and photos covered for $3,800. She’s a small business owner, and I’m all for that. Lately i have...

I've been finding as I'm talking to my parents and my soon-to-be in-laws that they have expectations of inviting their friends to the weeding. I get that we need to respect some of their requests if...

My fiancee and I are having a very small wedding, only 18 guests. The ceremony is being performed by a former co-worker of ours, I am paying her. I am not planning to have her stay for the reception...

I am getting married in a few months and have decided on my bridal party, but have come across a dilemma. My sister has expressed that she would like to be my MOH. I would love for her to be my MOH...

My wedding is in summer 2020, and I recently booked a photographer end of 2018. Was super responsive with all the questions and contract stuff. After dropping deposit, we exchanged a few emails. We...

My Fiancé and I are so excited to be getting married in June in the backyard of his Father's home. Getting to the point, his Dad is a *bit* of a plannerzilla, but it's not a big deal because it's his...

So maybe someone on here can help “talk me down” so to speak. My cousin is my junior bridesmaid and she hurt me deeply the other day and I don’t think she realizes it or maybe doesn’t care, which is...

Hi everyone. I'm afraid this'll be my final post on here. I feel like I owe it to you all to give you an explanation of what's happened because you all have been there for me through planning, have...

Okay so I told my braidsmaids they had to pay for their own dresses so they picked them out because they knew knew what they could pay. my sister in law is in the wedding and she is a stay at home...