Discussions I've participated in

My FH and I are contemplating whether or not we want to write our own wedding vows. At the moment we are both indifferent so we may just repeat after the officiant. However, I forgot about writing...

FH aunt has told me that wedding invites go out 6-8 weeks in advanced. Can somebody clarify if that 6-8 weeks is of the wedding date or of the time you need a final count for catering and all that. I...

Will anyone be on their period during their wedding? I recently got an IUD, and it seems that I just won't stop flowing. I'm concerned that I'll be experiencing this on my wedding day and/or on my...

Are there any brides out there who don't plan on taking their FH name? Or quite possibly *gasp* your FH is taking your last name? For various reasons I am keeping my last name. I don't think it should...

For an engagement shoot and engagement party do I have to wear white?

Let's dream for a minute. What's the one thing you wish you can have at your wedding but you can't justify the cost?

I live in New York and Im looking for a venue where I can bring my own food or hire my own caterer. Do you guys have any suggestions?

I don't want to the typical "here comes the bride song" (idk the actual name) would it be tacky to do something else? We asked our neighbor to play his acoustic guitar for us, now we just have to...

I literally went to get to wendys to get chicken nuggets and my card got denied. For 3 dollars... I called my bank and they said my account is -180 dollars! Looked at the bank statement and someone...

Where do I put the hashtag please

So I don't wear makeup unless I'm going out, and even that is minimal. Just mascara and a little color on my lips. Should I really even wear makeup on my big day, if so what type of "look" should I...

Are you doing a seating chart? I've never really cared for them when I was a guest. It also makes me nervous if people who didn't RSVP show up. I'm having a wedding with around 150-200 guests in...

If you were a guest at a wedding, which option for dessert would you prefer? I want to spend my money on something guests will actually eat rather than waste it. To give some background before giving...

Is it ok to include the vendors (photographers and dj with his assistant-4 total) in our food count for our buffet? Photographers will be there 7 hours and dj for 5. We thought it would be a...

I work in the hospitality and design industry and am seeking advise on what couples are choosing for their wedding destination venues. Any input would be greatly appreciated.

I'd like to get something for myself and the girls to get ready in, but I am not sold on the robe idea. They're beautiful, but just not something I'm interested in. There will be a lot of people...

FH and I are planning to go to Paris for our honeymoon but can't decide if it's the wisest idea considering the fact that it will be extremely cold. Have any of you all traveled to Paris in the...