Discussions I've participated in

If you had a bartender, did you pay the tip separate at a later date or did you have a jar set out for guests to tip at their discretion? Because many people don’t bring cash to open bars, did the...

H and I are renewing our vows. (10 years). We’re planning a small, intimate ceremony & then hosting a dinner party- no reception or anything crazy. Should I send Save the Dates? Most* invitees are...

My cousin, who's 24, has been dating her boyfriend for about a year, and they live together a few states away. I've never met the guy but my cousin's family does not like him at all. They say he's...

My fiance and I were going to have 5 hours of open soft bar (beer and wine) but then were told by our immediate family that that would be too much because our families tend to double fist drinks...

So my daddy passed last year, the plan was to get married after I finished school.(I’m 32 and in nursing school). Me and my fiancé have both lost our dads and I have no idea what to do.

My long term partner of 4 years and I had a huge fight that lead to him threatening to break up. He's done it maybe 5-6 times over the course of our relationship. I'm very insecure about my age and my...

I need help figuring out the timing of everything. Be harsh with your opinions/advice please! I want everything to run smoothly and not be rushed or move too fast. My hair and makeup artists recommend...

My fiancés last name is brown so we decided we want all the guests to wear brown but I cannot for the life of me think of a pun to say the dress code. All I can think of is “in honor of our last name...

I am planning a destination wedding and was wondering how I can nicely go about telling the wedding guest that we are not going to entertain them during their trip. like I only want to see them at the...

For those of you who have frequented this site for years, I'm sure the title made you do a double take, or perhaps Deja Vu. My older daughter was originally supposed to get married in June 2020. With...

Should they be invited to the groom's dinner?

Thinking about having a surprise wedding to eliminate the amount of stress and opinions. Wondering if it’s a “faux pas” to still have a shower and bachelorette party. We’re telling everyone we’re...

We will have party favors. They're small knit decorations, handmade by a family friend. I just can't think of a good way to distribute them, so I'd love to hear some ideas! We're serving a buffet...

Navigating grooms stepmom and biological mom. Help. Hello everyone. I 27(f) and my fiancé 35(m) are getting married in a year from now. His parents are divorced and has a decent relationship with...

So, I have been having a LOT of trouble with my sister, who is also a bridesmaid, and the dress she is trying to pick out. My wedding will be a very small, intimate affair with mostly family and...

I'm having a small home wedding (expecting around 25). We're only inviting parents, siblings (and their kids) and grandparents, plus a husband/wife who have played in important role in our...

My fiance and I have been together for two and a half years and will be getting married in December. He has a unique (very niche) hobby that isn't cheap. Without going into too much detail, the guy is...

How? Where to build a wedding website? How? Where to make a QR code for the RSVP?

Our wedding will be at two locations: a church ceremony followed by a cocktail hour and reception about 7 minutes away. We will have 230 guests, which is the maximum limit our reception venue allows....