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Slrhoshi

I work as a patient care tech at a hospital outside of Chicago. I have watched nearly every friend marry, even remarry, and begin families and I truly... View More

I work as a patient care tech at a hospital outside of Chicago. I have watched nearly every friend marry, even remarry, and begin families and I truly believed I would never have my turn to be a bride. What I'd isn't know is in hanging out with Dan, someone I only saw once a year at cons and tagged in funny memes on Facebook, in December 2017 that it would lead to the road where I would find a man not only worthy of a close friendship but one that could truly accept me for who I am and as one I never had to wear a mask around. He is a priceless gift and I am truly happy to walk this path with him.

Happily married 🎉

March 23, 2022

800days 8hrs
Carlin
First Look or Tradition
Carlin, on March 4, 2022 at 1:16 PM

We’re kind of debating on doing a first look or keep it traditional where we don’t see each other til the ceremony? I don’t we’re kind of old school.

Kaylie, Mar 10, 2022 11 2
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Finally the panic sets in
Slrhoshi, on March 6, 2022 at 7:59 AM

I thought I would be immune to this. Everything is set minus a few minor details that will be handled within the next couple of days. However I know my friends that have been married along with my...

Candace, Mar 6, 2022 4 151
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Invitations
Grace, on February 3, 2022 at 11:33 AM

Hey! What site/Etsy shop did everyone use for their wedding invitations? What were the pros and cons?

Tessa, Feb 15, 2022 25 1
Melinda
March Brides Check In
Melinda, on February 7, 2022 at 2:01 PM

How are you all hanging in there? What do you have left to do? Our wedding is March 12th, and I'm already starting to get distracted and it's all I can think about! I also swear if I didn't have a...

Michelle, Feb 27, 2022 43 3
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How to pack a wedding dress
Slrhoshi, on October 14, 2021 at 4:41 AM

I will be flying from Chicago to Orlando for my wedding which means baggage and needing to pack my wedding dress and get it on a plane. The dress I'm using is a ballgown and I do have a hoop skirt...

Slrhoshi, Oct 22, 2021 14
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Elopement/dresses?
Kenisha, on October 6, 2021 at 1:34 PM

How have others handled elopements and buying a wedding dress? My partner and I want a small thing with just us two but I also want a gorgeous dress. I would love to hear how others have juggled this....

Samantha, Oct 14, 2021 6
Rachel
Rehearsal dinner outfits - what are you wearing?
Rachel, on October 7, 2021 at 1:19 PM

Hi: Everyone! I was just wondering what you’re planning on wearing for your rehearsal dinner? I know some Brides wear some pretty cute outfits so I was wondering if anyone else is having fun with...

Slrhoshi, Oct 14, 2021 19 1
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Elopement - What are you doing for your reception?
Grace, on October 7, 2021 at 1:26 PM

I am planning an elopement. I will just be me, my fiance and his parents. Would like to do something special afterwards but don't really wanna cook at home lol. If you're doing something special...

Slrhoshi, Oct 14, 2021 4 1
Hope
Half dry reception?
Hope, on October 12, 2021 at 3:09 PM

I'm helping a couple of friends plan their wedding. I know my thoughts on this (don't come at me with the pitchforks, I had an open bar at my wedding!!), but I want to see what others think. Context:...

Willow, Oct 14, 2021 10
Cassie
"Cocktail hour" without food
Cassie, on October 12, 2021 at 6:57 PM

So we're doing a small ceremony with only immediate family and the bridal part. The rest of our 40 guests are only invited to the reception. We plan to make a big entrance because most guest will not...

Cassie, Oct 18, 2021 21
Melissa
Where is everyone getting married?
Melissa, on October 13, 2021 at 8:51 AM

Have you picked a location? Venue? Mine's in Jamaica over the water 😁!

Luna88, Dec 12, 2022 192 21
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How to cancel vendors
Slrhoshi, on September 11, 2021 at 10:52 PM

While I know many vendors are probably use to this by now due to covid, is it more polite to call and cancel with a follow up email or is an email enough to cancel the contracts? Our plans changed and...

Hannah, Sep 13, 2021 4 196
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Announce new plan or just send announcement cards?
Slrhoshi, on September 11, 2021 at 10:49 PM

Okay this got a bit complicated due to my own stressing out about financial stuff and on going Covid drama. We recently changed our plan from doing a smallish wedding locally to now doing an even...

Laura, Sep 26, 2021 4 149
Jessica
Favors or no favors?
Jessica, on January 15, 2021 at 12:26 PM

Having a predicament. so i’m not crazy about giving favors to our guests. the way i see it, i’m throwing an expensive party in our name and feeding you and giving you unlimited booze to celebrate our...

Merissa, Jan 17, 2021 16
Stephanie
Bouquet/garter toss
Stephanie, on January 15, 2021 at 5:29 PM

Ladies i need opinions. what are yalls thoughts on the tosses? what alternatives are yall doing in stead or are yall still doing it. I heard that you could give it to the couple together the longest....

Michelle, Jan 19, 2021 26
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Walking me down the aisle
Krissy, on January 16, 2021 at 12:54 AM

Okay so me and my dad have always been super close so obviously he is going to walk me down but my step dad has been in my life for 12 years now and my mom keeps saying I should have both of them walk...

Jennifer, Jan 23, 2021 10
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Where will you live?
Beni, on January 16, 2021 at 8:07 AM

Hey fam, i was curious to know if you all knew before getting engaged where you would live or what your living situation as a couple would be. Currently my Finance and I have discussed it and we do...

Beni, Jan 29, 2021 50
Connie
Who is getting flowers at your wedding?
Connie, on January 16, 2021 at 6:41 PM

I don't know that there is a hard and fast tradition regarding who gets boutonnieres and corsages at a wedding, but I am curious to know what y'all are doing! I am DIYing our flowers and just realized...

Michelle, Jan 25, 2021 17
Juwel
Parents are Unhappily Married
Juwel, on January 16, 2021 at 8:50 PM

My parents have been unhappily married for 35 years (they got pregnant early on in their dating relationship). I am having a tough time navigating sharing the joy of being in a wonderfully loving...

Slrhoshi, Jan 17, 2021 4
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