Discussions I've participated in

Old school etiquette says that save the dates are sent at 6-12 months before the wedding when the venue and date are secured and then invitations are sent at 6-8 weeks before with replies due at 4...

I have been engaged since late 2022 and have been in the wedding planning process for just over a year and a half. My wedding is next month, and we sent up Save the Dates in November followed by...

Hello all! I need help! My fiancé is wanting royal blue and white as our wedding colors because they are the colors of his fraternity and my sorority. I am having a hard time wrapping my head around...

I think reading my vows privately is how we want to do it. But I don’t want him to see me in my full dress, hair and makeup yet…I’m trying to think of a way to do it. Any thoughts…?

How should I word on my details card that guests will have to park in parking structure and pay for the day? I do have a website and will have alot more information on there and a map, but I also want...

For the venues you decided NOT to book, what were your dealbreakers? What did the venue have (or not have) that made you decide to walk away? One of the venues my husband and I looked at had a small...

My wedding is 10+ months out and I am dreading the dress buying experience. I have big time anxiety and body image issues and that is compounded by the expense of this one outfit.. How do I find a...

I'm 20 days away from my wedding and I'm trying to wrap up all the final details. I keep thinking of things that I could do - some still possible in the limited time left. Curious see if anyone has...

We are having a vow renewal with 65 guests. We will have a small dance floor available and want to encourage dancing but don’t want to have any scheduled dances (although I’m considering an...

So my dad passed away when I was 28 and my mom when I was 25. I’m having my best friend walk me down and I’m having my uncle do the father/daughter dance with me. Any suggestions on music for this...

We are struggling with the thought of hiring a videographer. How many of you have hired one or if you are married already do you regret not having one? If you did have one how many times have you...

We have our date set for June 06 2025! Super excited but our venue has this wonderful court yard area in between the chapel and reception hall that we would love to take full advantage of for a...

I’m not so close with my step dad and he really didn’t help raise me but he has been in my life for a long time. I’m looking for a song to dance to with him at my wedding but I will also be dancing...

We can't figure out where to go for our honeymoon. I want to go somewhere where there are things to do (theme park nearby, beach, etc.) He doesnt want to go in the ocean. We were considering New...

Hey guys! Anyone have a mother that wants to help plan everything but will absolutely not do any of the ideas you have? I want to have a little spooky in my wedding and she always says it's going to...

Hi everyone, I need some advice on how to handle a bridesmaid who has expressed strong feelings of disappointment over not being named MOH in my upcoming wedding. If anyone has dealt with this before,...

Our venue does NOT have a kitchen, and the only source of water is those a hose hookup on the side of the building. We will have a watering station that we will ask our bartenders to keep an eye out...

Hello! I’m getting married October 4th, 2024! I’m 22 my fiancé is 22! We’re trying to DIY our whole wedding for the most part to save as much money as possible. Our theme is Rustic/Deer Season as he’s...

Hi! My fiance and I are eloping March 2 on our spring break. We want to go somewhere for about 4 days in the US. We are history buffs and want a variety of the water and things to do. We’ve looked at...