Discussions I've participated in

Hello, I was wondering how much we should tip specialty vendors like horse and carriage. Also, how much should we tip our cake delivery and florist? Thank you

I’ve had a handful of people RSVP “yes” and then tell me they aren’t sure now and wouldn’t know until after our final counts are due for meals. If we overestimate and pay for 20 people who don’t end...

I know it’s not really etiquette, but we had evites designed for the rehearsal dinner calling for rsvp on wedding website. Is there a way to require a password for sections of the wedding website...

So our immediate family and attendants including +1s is 60 people, but my future MIL plans to invite guests of her own from out of town. Over 100 people at a rehearsal seems pretty busy and expensive,...

I have a few concerns with male attendant styling and I am looking for some advice or suggestions. First: SHOES. I’m likely being too detail-oriented, but I’m a little worried about sending this male...

When I am looking at catering menu pricing, are there additional fees that I am missing? I see in the fine print that there are service charges and taxes, but is it typical for caterers to tack on...

Etiquette question: Should we still invite guests who we no longer talk to? We sent out save the dates a year and a half ago, so it will be almost two years by the time of the wedding. Some of the...

Does anybody know if Minted More discount is stackable with other promo codes or how that works? We got a promo code to order new invites worth $350. I was thinking to join Minted More and...

Wedding bridesmaid confirm Hello all! I had planned to send communication out to the originally planned bridal party to confirm (for lack of a better term) their plans of still being involved in the...

Kind of a weird random question, but we are likely to host the rehearsal dinner at my fiancé’s family home and are now looking into a backyard wedding as an alternative for our wedding. I have been to...

Hello all! So our third attempt at getting married will be on August 1, 2021. Our venue has been closed since November with no signs of reopening anytime soon. Has anybody here heard of or attended a...

I have had bonding and veneers on my mind for years now and with having an HSA account and postponing my wedding more than a year out, I think I would like to use some of that money for the process. I...

Okay guys, can’t be the only person having this issue. I have the “disease to please” and have a hard time saying “no” which makes some of this stuff pretty hard for me. Sad to admit. Our guest list...

We announced late July postponing our wedding again into August of next year. With the economical impact of everything going on, a lot of my wants have changed and I want to be more realistic. Fiancé...