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Randi

I'm a mom of three adult children. My 27-year old middle child is the first of my brood to get married, so I'm sailing in unchartered waters. I want to do... View More

I'm a mom of three adult children. My 27-year old middle child is the first of my brood to get married, so I'm sailing in unchartered waters. I want to do my best to be a great mother and mother-in-law (like my mother-in-law before me) but I feel as though I'm failing in the future mother-in-law department. :-( Any suggestions from future daughters-in-law would be much appreciated!

Randi
Parents Are Not Allowed To Invite Friends. :-(
Randi, on May 31, 2019 at 12:35 AM

My son and his fiance' announced their engagement and set a date. The bride then set the number of guests at 100 and calculated a budget; which the parents happily agreed to split. THEN 1) The bride...

Jenna, May 31, 2019 40 7,057
Alyrae
Future mother in law feeling like she doesn't care any more
Alyrae, on December 27, 2018 at 8:29 PM

So when I first got engaged my future mother in law was super excited she liked listening to my ideas and now I feel like she doesn't care I will start talking about the wedding and she acts...

DianeEAddington, Aug 16, 2019 20
Randi
Hurt Feelings Over Planning
Randi, on December 28, 2018 at 9:53 PM

Hi All, My future daughter in law asked my husband and I to split the cost of her wedding with her parents, and we happily agreed. Since then, the bride has informed us that she doesn't want any...

Randi, Jan 5, 2019 56
Cayla
In-law drama
Cayla, on December 19, 2018 at 11:23 PM

I'm in desperate need of advice here! Me and my fiancés parents are not getting along. They have agreed to help pay for the wedding (we made a spreadsheet of what they would pay and what that covers)...

Randi, Jan 2, 2019 17
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Grooms family paying for more guests on our side
Jamie, on December 25, 2018 at 11:03 PM

I’m the mother of the groom and already feeling like persona non grata. I was told I could invite 10 people out of 150. We have a small family (bride’s family is huge) and we have many life long...

Alexandra, Jan 2, 2019 24
Rachel
Planning with my mom
Rachel, on January 1, 2019 at 10:43 PM

I could use some advice on how to work with my mother on planning my wedding. I love my mother, and she wants so badly for everything to be as perfect as possible. However, her definition of perfect...

Brittany, Jan 2, 2019 5
Katie
Friends who are not invited
Katie, on December 21, 2018 at 10:30 AM

Hey everyone, looking for a little advice. An old friend of mine from elementary school has been messaging me every few months since FH and I got engaged. Which is fine, but we haven't really talked...

Rachel, Jan 3, 2019 38
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Mother in Law
Erin, on December 23, 2018 at 7:57 PM

Hi, I'm having some difficulty with my future mother in law. Everything I've done so far for the wedding, is not enough for her. She has created a big dramatic argument for everything up to this...

LIsa, May 30, 2022 19
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