Hey everyone, looking for a little advice. An old friend of mine from elementary school has been messaging me every few months since FH and I got engaged. Which is fine, but we haven't really talked about anything substantial since we were kids (if this means anything, I'm an INFJ and generally hate small talk). In my opinion, we don't really talk for a reason, and that's because we are very different now that we're adults.
Anyway, one of the first things she said to me when I got engaged to FH was, "I better be a bridesmaid!". I'm not even sure I want to invite her to the wedding. Now she messages me asking about the wedding every few months and I try to redirect the conversation away from that kind of talk, but it's getting harder (again, because we don't really have anything to talk about).
Anyone else in a similar situation? How are you dealing with these types of interactions?
Thanks in advance!!