Discussions I've participated in

As the title says my Fiancée wants a big wedding and I don't. We have been engaged since July 5th of 2020 and our wedding is July 10 of 2021. We having nothing planned, don't even know whos going to...

Hi All, I have two wedding dress finalists. I’ve been to quite a few stores and now I’m down to two options. I like both options but I’m really struggling with committing to either of them. I don’t...

Our wedding is small, less than 100 people! We are thinking we may not do a guest book. Any ideas for something different? Thank you

Hey everyone! My fiancé and I are starting to put our wedding party together, and have realized that neither of us have any one to be a flower girl. His niece is too old, and I don't have any friends...

Hello, so recently both my mom and mother-in-law have been asking what color they should wear. I had told my MIL that burgundy would work. Yesterday my mom asks me what color she can wear and I...

I am struggling with how to inform my guests of what table they will be sitting at. Our ceremony and reception are taking place all at the same location. And our place is to have all the tables set up...

So I guess this is mainly my fault, but between my fiancé and I we had approximately 140 guests to invite together. Overtime my mother, Aunt and father would little by little asked me to send...

I have never done this before our wedding is a year from Friday. 85percent of our guests are coming from out of town. Do we send every person a save a date? or is it one per adult in family?

Hi everyone. I’m not a mom so I want to make sure I do this right so I don’t upset any of the parents. Besides the flower girls and the ring bearers, and my nephew, I’m trying to avoid kids at the...

How much is everyone spending on wedding cakes? I got a estimate for 4K and I about fell out of my chair

How are you figuring this out? It is such a hot topic that many do not agree on. One school of thought among many: it is disrespectful to ask someone to celebrate your relationship while not...

Hi! My fiance's parents are divorced and have both remarried. His dad and step-dad have been fitted for suits to match the groomsmen, but we are at a loss for what to do with his dad's husband... does...

Everyone hates the idea of inviting that one person you have no relationship with just to please your parents or someone else who isn't even footing the bill. On the same token that people avoid those...

Hi! My DJ is asking for a "do not play" list of songs for the reception and I want to know what y'all would have on that list if it were your reception. What songs do you hate to hear at weddings?

Does anyone have any recommendations for the best way to keep RSVPs organized and how to plan the seating chart? I've seen people use a recipe box for the RSVPs and a poster board and post it's for...

Anyone else skipping these? We're having one location with being announced at the end of the ceremony and no extra guests for the reception,, so if the guests don't know who we are, they aren't...

I am planning a wedding and was trying to complete the guest list. Originally, it was going to be a small, intimate wedding with maybe 40 people but now my fiancé wants to invite twice as many so now...

OK… So one of our really close friends is single. He is a GREAT GUY! He’s attractive, he makes good money, he’s a great friend! Super supportive! Great listener! Really cares about the people in his...

Hello everyone! I am a COVID bride that was supposed to get married Aug 1, 2020. We postponed to Aug 7, 2021, so we’re 4 months out. My fiancé is adding a few people to his grooms party (new in laws...

Alright guys. I know this is heated, so please don't come at me. My fiance and I have elderly relatives as well as several cancer survivors, and one guest currently battling cancer. We postponed our...