Activity for Charlotte

My makeup artist just messaged me asking when I can get my makeup done with her and now I'm stressing about my wedding timeline. Our venue is 1.5hrs away from us. We're able to check in at 11AM. My only trouble is my makeup artist will not be coming...

My fiance and I can't seem to come to an agreement on if we want one big traditional cake or if we'll do a small cake for us and cupcakes for guests. Anyone want to weigh in? Is one better than the other? I think price wise they'll be pretty even.

I plan on inviting all my coworkers and was wondering is it informal to hand deliver my invitations? I don't know anyone's address and don't know how I'd go about that??? Help!!

My MOH asked me if I had any ideas of what I would want to do for my party. I feel like she thinks we have to have a party where I get really drunk and that's not me?? What are some fun ideas for a party that don't involve alcohol? I feel bad but I...