Discussions by Michelle

Was reading another thread where this is a common thing for guests coming from out of the local area, not during a gap. I didn’t know it was that prevalent or even done in the first place. Not many...

How are you figuring this out? It is such a hot topic that many do not agree on. One school of thought among many: it is disrespectful to ask someone to celebrate your relationship while not...

Everyone hates the idea of inviting that one person you have no relationship with just to please your parents or someone else who isn't even footing the bill. On the same token that people avoid those...

Anyone else skipping these? We're having one location with being announced at the end of the ceremony and no extra guests for the reception,, so if the guests don't know who we are, they aren't...

Certain songs? Reception styles? Gift types? Anything you have come across that is foreign to your circle.

Are there any popular shots that are not important to you at all? For example, not wanting photo coverage of getting dressed or something else

Is anyone greeting your guests as they arrive? Guestbook attendant, ushers, parents if any, the bride and groom, someone else?

As an alternative option to beef, if you are serving chicken/seafood/other, how is it prepared? Chicken Parmesan, Breaded fish and chips, something else entirely?

What are you choosing to not include in your wedding? Maybe it doesn't mean anything to you and fiance or it's an unnecessary expense your guests would not partake in.

What have you seen that is common in your social circle that you are doing? Or are you going with flow of whatever happens organically? Is there anything that you feel is a npn negotiatiable must...

Are you going for short and sweet straight to the point? Or longer with religious/cultural rituals added? Is your officiant reading something completely unique or having an offbeat mini ceremony to...

Whether you are having corporate drop off as the main meal or fast food drop off for late night snacks, how was/is your experience? Is it something you are just considering or for sure going with?...

When browsing photographer websites, blogs, Instagram accounts, what has stood out to you that you want to recreate? Black and white vs sepia vs details colored in? Crisp bright natural light vs dark...

Anything that makes no sense to you that popped up in the last 5-10 years as trendy that you will not be including at all?

What things are you focusing your attention and budget on?

Obviously the dictionary that most people go by says a wedding is the ceremony or act of becoming legally married. I'm so curious by many posts that say they got married but didn't have a wedding. Any...

Anyone else doing this? While I have noticed that some vendors have an Instagram/Facebook only presence, not all do. Also we don't intend to buy anything just to resell later (linens, decor, etc)...

Because countless couples choose not to save the cake for a year (many horror stories of friends/family getting sick, not tasting right even with recommended wrapping) and cake ingredients are not...

Those going for unconventional wild pops of color: black, red, hot pink, etc share your inspiration or the dress you decided to go with

What stood out in your memory as the best time you've had? What was the worst wedding you have attended?