Discussions by Michelle

What foods have been your favorite that you still remember as a guest? What foods did you hate?

I hate both and so does fiance. Between the two of we can count on one hand the number of family/friends who drink either of those options, even in a pinch when nothing else is available. Since they...

Are the kids left at home with grandparents while the parents hop on a plane? What happens when you have an entire family group that needs to travel and no available sitters at home? How are you...

Of the weddings you have attended, what made the best ones stand out from the rest? Was it something during the ceremony, the reception vibe, something unique that was done, an unusual menu?

Fiancé said he doesn’t really care either way but I was discussing ideas with my sister/maid of honor and one of the top contenders we came up was So May We Start by Sparks:...

What do you and friends/family view about weddings in general that is not what the masses agree with. For example: a view/tradition that is foreign in your social circle that others expect you to...

What were the things guests raved about as being spectacular or that you noticed as being a great idea? Was there anything unexpected that turned out better than you hoped?

Everyone talks about wedding planning being so stressful. What have been the good, positive moments you have had? Is it finding vendors or ideas that you and fiancé both love? Or is it reconnecting...

Married ladies: what was the best thing you purchased/included that was inexpensive compared to the rest? Also on the flip side, what was the worst expensive purchase/idea?

Did you have any venues on your wishlist that have stunning architecture or views (or something else) you still pine over in pictures that got scratched off the list early due to not working out? For...

What set it apart from the rest? A certain menu, a specific activity or location or all of the above?

What are you serving? Is it just for those involved in the ceremony and their significant others or are you inviting all guests? Will it be casual or formal?

For the married ladies, what did you splurge on that was worth every penny in the end? Did people try to dissuade you against them during planning?

When you are a guest, how much do you really notice or care about aesthetics/manners? Or do you only focus on the “guest experience“ of good food (regardless if it’s finger sandwiches or steak),...

Is it an anniversary or a particular Friday/Saturday in your favorite season? Or did you go with whatever date the venue of choice had open?

Bridal shower. Lingerie Shower. Bridesmaid luncheon. Bachelorette party. Rehearsal dinner. Welcome party. Day after brunch. Gift opening. Are there others? Which of these have you attended as a guest...

Alot of people say they don’t get to interact with the couple beyond the receiving line even with small guest counts because of the time frame the venue mandates. Couples say the same: they don’t get...

Anything you were gifted that you didn’t think about adding?

What is your favorite food at a wedding? What would you like to see that is not common or available in your area? What, if anything, do you wish to never see on a menu again?

It’s a completely different thing from etiquette because it’s a custom that has been around for awhile that doesn’t offend anyone and create awkwardness if you choose not to participate. Usually it’s...