Discussions by Lexi

For those of you who have multiple piercing, what earrings are you wearing? I have my lobes, and double lobes pierced, in addition to my cartilage on both sides. I always wear earrings in all 3 of...

We're having free beer, wine & soda all night. Liquor will be cash bar, is that acceptable? I don't want to pay for all my family and friends to get blackout drunk. Input?

I was talking with my MOH, who is hosting my bachelorette party and she was wondering who pays for what. She's planning on do a spa day with massages etc. and then some activities afterwards, which...

Does they hide out? Or welcome guests, I can't remember from the previous weddings I've been too.

FH and I are doing a first look at venue (ceremony site and reception are at the same place, but our getting ready location is at a hotel 5 minutes away). Our first look is going to be at 4:00 (the...

What amount are you tipping vendors? What if they run their own business, do you still tip? For those of you that already paid your vendors everything, how are you planning on tipping them? At the...

We're having our cocktail hour inside but have access to outdoors as well. We're renting giant games to have set up during cocktail hour outdoors, but we're stuck on a clever way to let guests know...

Has anyone done this? Or seen this done? Is it weird only to do one, but not the other?

We have about a 1 hour cocktail hour but we're trying to think of things to keep our guests entertained while we take pictures. What are some of the things you're doing?

We have a friend that we gave a plus one to just ask us if his plus one can bring her child. We have never even met this person and I really don't want her bringing her child considering we're only...

What are you doing for a guest book?

We recently received a wedding gift before the wedding. What is the etiquette in regards to sending thank you notes? The person that sent the gift is coming to the wedding as well. Do I wait till...

What time are you planning on having your rehearsal dinner? How long does one usually go? FH and I have never been to one, but we are wanting to have a practice ceremony and serve a dinner for our...

Our caterer includes a salad (before dinner) in our food choice and we're having a plated dinner. They only offer one dressing for everyone. Do we need to let our guests know about the salad, our...

We're in the works of finalizing what our fathers should wear. We're thinking black tux and pants, but not sure on the tie color. Wedding party is wearing gray suits and bridesmaid in pink dresses....

My parent's offered to host a day after wedding brunch/opening gifts, but they want to include all out of town guests and I don't want to. (Majority of my family is from out of state, but FH isn't.)...

What signage are you guys doing? I'm trying to put together all my signs and I feel like I'm forgetting some. So far I have welcome sign, snapchat/hashtag sign and bar sign. What signs do you have? ...

We had a few people decline already but they sent us a gift still. Should I write a thank you now? A few of the gifts are checks, is it acceptable to cash the check now or are we supposed to wait till...

We are starting to receive a few presents although it isn't our wedding yet. I'm not sure whether or not we should write a thank you card now, or after the wedding? What are you doing? If you are...

I'm not sure what my father's girlfriend should wear? She asked me and I have no clue. What are you suggesting for your parent's boyfriends/girlfriends to wear? My parent's are divorced, and my mother...