Discussions by FutureMrsAF

So I am definitely taking FH's last name, but planning on adding my current last name to my middle name (essentially having two middle names), what is the process for going this route? Or is it the...

So I recently got hired at a new company, and while I was in school I did odd jobs that paid cash. I never had a w2 or 1099, I listed this on my resume as experience I had. Now this employer wants...

I am debating on my "upgrade", it's really not an upgrade per se as I originally had a diamond, but have always loved gemstones so I suppose to some it'd be a downgrade lol, but in my eyes I'm...

FH and I are definitely taking a honeymoon abroad in the next couple years but for our honeymoon this year we are wanting to stay stateside since we just bought a house, paid for a wedding etc. Where...

So I received my grandma's engagement ring, and I love it. I was however thinking of switching the setting so I don't have to re-shank the ring as it's getting thin and I'd get something more "me"....

We just got under contract for our new house, the current homeowners have just had a hayday trying to make this a difficult process, but we've been reasonable because we like the house. They initially...

Second post of the night! I have my FSIL's bridal shower next week, she and I aren't all that close and I'm assuming I was only invited because I'm engaged to her brother. I'm not sure what to get...

Anyone have any recommendations for books they have read on the topic of marriage or relationships? I need a new book, and seeing as I'm getting married, it might be a good topic so if you've ready...

FH and this ex have been broken up for 4 years now, they dated for 6 years. Somehow, in the last four years this girl has not been able to get over FH. She's always asking his friends about him (she...

Been thinking about slashing our already small (50 guests) guest list to 15 or so. Mom is furious about this as it would mean a lot of extended family (grandparents, aunts, uncles) would not be...

I'm glad I'm doing one, for obvious reasons.. but they are so frustrating. I have rounds of ten, and it's like I either sit one person at a different table than the people they're coming with, or sit...

So my stepdad is walking me down the aisle, I had been debating even inviting my bio dad as we have a not so great history (he was very emotionally abusive to me growing up). I decided to invite him...

So most people put "dinner and drinks to follow" or "dinner and dancing to follow" on their invite, we are doing brunch with a mimosa and Bloody Mary bar. Should I leave it at "brunch to follow" or...

I have how we met, should I also include individual interests and careers or just keep it centered around us as a couple? I'm writing it and it's starting to feel like a personals ad haha. Just...

My FH proposed in Paris during a trip in January, and he had planned a custom ring, but unfortunately it would not have been ready by the time we left for trip. So in the meantime he got a small .10...

So my wedding dress needs hemmed, I was planning on going back to Davids Bridal where I bought it (and still might) and I was surprised to get a quote of $200 for just hemming.. I've read the...

I am definitely going to get in to see a doctor ASAP, however because I am a student and work part time I don't have insurance at the moment so I was wondering if anyone had experienced something...

Vent: We've just started talking with our wedding planner, her services came included with the venue we picked which is great. However, she is not good at communicating anything to me. We are trying...