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Ok, so this is who we are…

We are an incredible event space. We can’t imagine that you’ll find anything like us anywhere else in the city! We are rustic, vintage and charming, with a lot of “old” and a good dose of “new.” We are nestled in a beautiful, historic building in the Crossroads Arts District — painstakingly restored to provide modern conveniences but still retain the original charm and architectural details that make us so special. We have exposed brick, textured walls and original plaster. (One person called it our “patina” and we love that!) We have a Bridal Room made all cute and cozy just for you and your girls and a Groom’s Room made all handsome and dapper for your boys. We have handmade, artisan furniture, gorgeous hardwood floors and window seats made from century-old reclaimed fir. We have Italian-glass string bulbs draped from the ceiling. (Yes, the round ones that make you feel like you’re in a romantic alley in, well, Italy). And we have an extra little space adjacent to the main event room called The Parlour — ooh la la!

Wait, did we mention our view? We have a view from our event space that is absolutely marvelous! From our third floor you can see ALL of the gorgeous Kansas City skyline glowing at dusk or twinkling at night, the new performing arts center glimmering to the west and the restored TWA rocket ship ready for take-off. And our unique block of West 18th Street is peppered by an eclectic mix of boutiques, restaurants, galleries and shops.

On top of it all, we LOVE having events here. We love that we’re able to share with you a space that is totally unique and charming and beautiful on a day that you are so ready to make unique and charming and beautiful.

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So what’s happening in the rest of the building? Well… The Bauer itself has three stories of mixed-use space, which include artist studios, galleries, and creative-inspired services, such as photographers, retail boutiques, an urban garden store and even a clock-maker. Atop it all perches our beloved event space. The building is called “THE BAUER.” The experience is called “THE BRIDE & THE BAUER.”

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You’re the bride. We’re The Bauer. And we’re meant for each other.

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Frequently asked questions

Do you have a site fee for wedding receptions at your venue?

Yes

Do you have a site fee for wedding ceremonies at your venue?

No

Which of the following are included in the starting site fee?

Bridal Suite
Clean Up
Event Planning
Lighting/Sound
Parking
Set Up

What is the starting price per person for bar service?

$20

How many event spaces or rooms does your venue offer?

2

Describe your venue:

Historic Building
Loft

What kind of settings are available?

Indoor

Which of the following wedding events does your venue service?

Ceremony
Reception
Bridal Shower
Engagement Party

What event services do you offer?

Bar Services
Clean Up
Event Planner
Event Rentals
Get Ready Rooms
Pet Friendly
Wifi

What bar services do you provide?

Bartender(s)
Champagne Toast
House Beer
House Liquor
House Wine
Liquor License
Open Bar
Premium Liquor
Signature Drink
Specialty Beer
Specialty Wine

What event items are available?

Audio Equipment
Chairs
Dance Floor
Furniture
Lighting
Tables

What food and beverage items are available?

Barware

What transportation and access is available?

Parking
Wheelchair Access

What months are included in your off-peak season?

January
February

Reviews of The Bride and the Bauer

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Andrea Sent on 02/18/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Picture perfect

I thought I wanted to get married at The Bauer and then I went to tour it. This venue is BEAUTIFUL. It does not require much decoration and the view to downtown was perfect. It seemed on the cheap end at first, but after adding in rentals, it was on par with other venues. The staff was responsive and really made the day perfect. Planning the wedding from out of state is no easy task, but they made it so easy. They were also super helpful with figuring out a floor plan to make the most use of the space! I would choose The Bride and The Bauer in a heart beat again!
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Harley Sent on 01/10/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Dream Venue for our Dream Day

The Bride & The Bauer was an absolute dream venue for our ceremony and reception. We worked with them for over 2 years planning our dream day including postponing twice while living out of state and out of country, and they were so organized and responsive helping us navigate what was best for us. The venue had everything we could've needed for getting ready, ceremony, cocktail hour, reception and the staff was wonderful. There was such a build up and high expectations to our wedding day since it took us years to finally get there, and they truly did not disappoint. We got so many compliments from the guests loving the space and everything running seamlessly. High recommend The Bride & The Bauer - 100% satisfied.
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Jenny Sent on 01/03/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Would choose the Bauer over and over again!

The Bride and the Bauer staff (especially Emily) were incredible to work with. They were so helpful and compassionate through the process of having a wedding during a pandemic. The space is beautiful and the location is prime.
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Cynthia Sent on 12/28/2021
5 out of 5 rating

The Bauer is the BEST!

The Bauer is the BEST! While we had to wait 2.5 years to finally have our wedding due to COVID, it was well worth the wait. The staff, atmosphere, and view at the Bauer cannot be beat! While we had hoped to have our wedding in 2020, the Bauer staff was completely understanding of our decision to postpone to the following year and were also extremely helpful in answering all of our questions, specifically around COVID safety protocols. We did not have to worry about a thing the day of our wedding, the Bauer staff took care of EVERYTHING and made sure the day ran seamlessly. We had a lot of family coming in from out of town and received so many compliments on how beautiful the venue was!
Chelsea
Chelsea Sent on 08/30/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Incredible space, amazing people!

The Bauer was the absolute perfect venue for our wedding. The space is incredible and so versatile to each couple's vision. The view of downtown makes such a gorgeous backdrop, and watching the city lights come on as you party the night away is truly magical. The location is also incredibly convenient to so many hotels in the area, making it easy for people to get to and from the venue.

From the start, every single person we worked with was helpful and so responsive. Though I hope other couples don't have to experience the same, they were so flexible and understanding when we had to postpone our June 2020 wedding due to COVID.

Emily was amazing and helped provide insights that made our vision a reality. She answered all of my big and little questions in a timely manner and reassured my bride-brain that things would go well. The event staff day-of was also wonderful and I know they helped make our day totally perfect. The bar staff was so friendly and everyone loved how our signature cocktails turned out. Cannot say enough great things about this space and the people who make it so special! A true gem.
Maggie
Maggie Sent on 04/30/2021
5 out of 5 rating

A downtown KC wedding at The Bauer is a must!

The Bauer was a dream. The event space is timeless - it's the perfect combination of urban and industrial mixed with beauty and charm. Our wedding was in the spring and it looked so beautiful with our botanical style and pops of spring colors. Highly recommend for weddings of approx 150 guests. (We had 175 and I don't feel it would have comfortably fit anymore)
Rebecca
Rebecca Sent on 01/15/2021
5 out of 5 rating

The Bauer went above and beyond

We absolutely loved hosting our wedding at The Bauer! We initially were booked for June 2020 and postponed to December 2020 and had no issues changing dates. They were extremely accommodating and understanding. Due to COVID guidelines for our postponed date, we went from having a 150 person guest list to around 35. Emily and the staff at The Bauer went above and beyond to help us submit a mitigation plan to the health department so we could have more than 10 guests and ensure we were following the guidelines. All of our guests felt safe and thankfully, no one got sick. We all had a wonderful day and didn't feel like we were missing out because it wasn't the traditional wedding we planned on. Not to mention, the venue is gorgeous, no matter what time of year. We highly recommend The Bauer for your wedding!
Caitlynn
Caitlynn Sent on 09/26/2020
5 out of 5 rating

Great venue!

We got so many compliments from guests on the venue! The view of downtown from the third floor is the perfect backdrop. It’s also such a pretty building I didn’t really have to decorate much. It’s also so convenient you can rent furniture through them at a reasonable price. They also provide bar services which was also nice to have one less vendor to worry about! All of the staff was great and easy to work with.
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Branden Sent on 05/30/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Surprisingly affordable for an incredible vibe, great staff and beautiful design

I just had my wedding here this past weekend. I was born and raised in KC but went to school out of town. So when we were searching for a venue, I knew I had to find a place that really embodied KC for me because I had done nothing but hype up how awesome it is here the whole time I was abroad. The Bride and the Bauer was really a perfect fit for that because of the great view of downtown and the character of the building and location. The colorful, wedding day vibe it puts off is exactly what I hoped to find and I'm confident that my guests were charmed by the atmosphere it presents. And let's not forget to mention the friendly staff before, during and after our event! Very well organized, no surprises with costs/policies and very supportive and helpful.

This venue was the only one I viewed but as soon as I did, I was confident it was the one and looked no further. If you're looking for that hip Crossroads KC feel with classy architecture, exposed brick and hardwood floors, a great view and a great group of people running the place: look no further. This is it.
Sammy
Sammy Sent on 04/22/2019
5 out of 5 rating

I love the bride and the bauer!

This is the venue to end all venues (at least in my opinion). The staff is WONDERFUL, the space is STUNNING, and the ambiance is everything you could wish for and more. With beautiful views of downtown Kansas City, and a rustic/industrial/romantic fusion inside the walls, The Bride and The Bauer is perfect for so many events!!! We were recently married in the space and I can’t speak highly enough about the experience as a whole. Everyone at the Bauer was super helpful (leading up to and on the day of the wedding) but not only were they helpful, they were simply lovely and especially kind. In addition, I was (and will always be) in love with the aesthetics of the Bauer event space. With a dreamy bride’s room, a spacious grooms room, and the prettiest event space – there is nothing to leave you wanting – not to mention the lighting!! (Both natural and romantic string lights to boot!) Book the Bauer – you won’t regret it!! & Shout out to Chelsey and Ashlee – who were there for me through every question during the wedding planning process!!
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The Bride and the Bauer frequently asked questions

The Bride and the Bauer includes the following items and services for wedding events in its starting site fee:
  • Bridal Suite
  • Clean Up
  • Event Planning
  • Lighting/Sound
  • Parking
  • Set Up
The space offered by The Bride and the Bauer for wedding events is known for:
  • Historic Building
  • Loft
The Bride and the Bauer offers the following indoor/outdoor options for weddings:
  • Indoor
The Bride and the Bauer offers the following types of wedding events:
  • Ceremony
  • Reception
  • Bridal Shower
  • Engagement Party
The Bride and the Bauer offers the following services for wedding events:
  • Bar Services
  • Clean Up
  • Event Planner
  • Event Rentals
  • Get Ready Rooms
  • Pet Friendly
  • Wifi
The Bride and the Bauer offers the following furniture and decor items for weddings:
  • Audio Equipment
  • Chairs
  • Dance Floor
  • Furniture
  • Lighting
  • Tables
The Bride and the Bauer is recommended by 98% of couples who have used their services. Their overall rating is 4.9 out of 5 with the following breakdown: 5 in quality of service, 5 in average response time, 4.9 in professionalism, 4.9 in value and 4.8 in flexibility.
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