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Throughout my life I have worked as a writer and public speaker. I have always loved being able to capture a moment and to put feelings into words, from delivering wedding speeches, to capstone addresses, to slam poetry performances, to now teaching these skills to high school students! Since 2017, I have had the truly beautiful privilege of capturing the many different, colorful, and infinitely unique love stories of this state. From small elopements to large weddings, no two stories have ever been the same! Nothing has been more fun than capturing the unique stories of each and every couple, from adventures around the world to quality Sunday coffees (and occasionally both at the same time)!

By working closely with my clients, I build stories that are true to each couple’s story. From dear memories to goofy inside jokes to the day you first met, each step has been essential in bringing you to where you are today. It’s important to me to create a ceremony that captures these things, ensuring that it glows as much as you both do. Most of all, I love stories that can rooted in laughter, in smiles, and in the appreciation of the small things that make both of you so special to each other. (And if you’re a little bit nerdy? Well, we’ll get along great)!

My specialty is finding that unique connection and putting such a precious thing into words. Whether you are looking for a conventional, non-traditional, unique, or simple ceremony, I will be able to help! Most of all though, know that you will be celebrated and loved as you are. I am a proud LGBTQ ally and strongly believe in the fundamental right we all have to equality, justice, and shared commitment regardless of race, gender, religion, or sexual orientation. Love is love, and it is a gift that truly deserves to be celebrated.

Please feel free to reach out if you have any questions! I would love to learn about your love story and to figure out how to put your perfect ceremony into words. Till then, enjoy the sunshine, be recklessly in love, and never stop laughing along the way.

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Frequently asked questions

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

No

What is the starting price for ceremony rehearsals?

$50

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What religious affiliations do you serve?

No Denomination

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

MI
OH

What languages do you speak?

English

Reviews of Smitten State Weddings

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Emily from Smitten State Weddings receives overwhelmingly positive reviews for her officiating services, with couples praising her personalized and engaging ceremonies that reflect their love stories. Emily's warm personality, attention to detail, and ability to calm nerves during wedding planning and ceremonies are highlighted, earning her high recommendations from multiple reviewers. Her ability to create unique and moving ceremonies, handle last-minute changes, and truly get to know couples make her a standout choice for officiating weddings.

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Emily from Smitten State Weddings receives overwhelmingly positive reviews for her officiating services, with couples praising her personalized and engaging ceremonies that reflect their love stories. Emily's warm personality, attention to detail, and ability to calm nerves during wedding planning and ceremonies are highlighted, earning her high recommendations from multiple reviewers. Her ability to create unique and moving ceremonies, handle last-minute changes, and truly get to know couples make her a standout choice for officiating weddings.

Braydon
Braydon Sent on 06/01/2026
5 out of 5 rating

More Than an Officiant, A Truly Special Part of Our Wedding Day

Emily was absolutely INCREDIBLE from start to finish. Before our wedding, she took the time to interview us (not an interrogation, it was actually really fun) and realy get to know our story, our relationship, and what mattered most to us. She brought a polished speech to out ceremony that felt deeply personal and authentic. She shared our story sooo beautifully that our family and friends felt connected to every moment, and like pretty much all the guests commented afterward about how meaningful the ceremony was.

After that, Emily went beyond my expectations.... she proactively handled the paperwork afterward & detailing next steps. The value she provides is exceptional. I don't have enough to say positively: she's organized, thoughtful, responsive, and genuinely invested in making wedding day special. We are SO grateful she was part of our celebration and would recommend Smitten without hesitation to any couple looking for an officiant who truly cares :D
Mary
Mary Sent on 10/12/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Emily will make your day super-special!

Emily was the perfect person to personalize and officiate our wedding ceremony. Her sunny personality and natural enthusiasm were evident in all our interactions, from our first meeting to the after-ceremony toast. She was dependable, professional, and comfortably partnered with us to efficiently step through the planning process. We hosted a very small wedding at our house to make our decades-long relationship official -- and Emily didn’t skip a beat fitting into the family dynamics. We highly recommend Emily and Smitten State Weddings!
Andrew
Andrew Sent on 10/07/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Authentic, Intimate and Beautiful

Emily’s personality, attention to detail and authenticity were breathtaking
A
Arianna Sent on 09/24/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Highly highly recommend!

EMILY IS THE ABSOLUTE BEST!!!! WE COULDNT HAVE ASKED FOR A BETTER OFFICIANT!!! Alright I’m done yelling now lol Right from the start, Emily clicked with my husband and I. We knew we have found “the one” 😉 immediately. It was like we were talking to our bestfriend, like we’ve known eachother forever. We were sooo excited to meet in person and have her officiate our wedding! We knew we’d be comfortable, and she’d absolutely nail it for us. She 100% did! She kept me sane before the wedding when I was so so nervous! Her bubbly and fun personality kept me laughing and calm when my anxiety was through the roof. Forever thankful for such a beautiful person (inside and out) and most phenomenal officiant someone could ever ask for. There’s not enough words to describe our amazing experience with Emily ❤️
K
Kara Sent on 08/28/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Truly the best!

I don't have enough good things to say about Smitten State Weddings! From the first moment we met Emily on a virtual call, we knew that we wanted her to write our ceremony. She wrote a beautiful ceremony that captured my husband and I perfectly. She wasn't available to officiate our wedding, which we knew before signing a contract with her. Caitie did a wonderful job officiating our ceremony. We had a few last minute changes (like an unexpected thunderstorm), and Caitie was such a calming presence who adapted to the new setting so quickly. We're forever grateful to both of them for making our day so special and memorable!
Kati
Kati Sent on 06/01/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Wonderful officiant

Emily was an amazing officiant! She worked with us ahead of time to put together a ceremony that captured the important things, and on the day of the ceremony she brought an amazing joy and energy that really added to the day. She's great to work with, strongly recommended!
Kelly
Kelly Sent on 04/05/2025
5 out of 5 rating

1 Billion / 5 Stars

I CANNOT RECOMMEND EMILY ENOUGH!!! She made the ceremony the absolute highlight of our wedding. We laughed, we cried, we celebrated with ease because she made it so personal and tailored to our love story. She worked closely with us every step of the way to create a truly unique and special ceremony that impeccably reflected our love! She even worked with us to customize a tree planting unity ceremony.

We received so many compliments from our guests with comments like "That was the best ceremony I have ever attended!" to "Why haven't I met your best friend Emily before?" Her ceremony was so personalized that everyone was convinced she had been our friend for years! She is so warm, well spoken, thoughtful and I wouldn't have wanted anyone up there with us as we got married.

Emily took the time to answer all of our questions, calm our nerves, revise the ceremony whenever we changed our minds, and to really get to know us and understand our values as she ushered us into the next stage of our relationship. She made the wedding process effortless and anyone would be lucky to have her on their special day.
Angela
Angela Sent on 02/16/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Unique, one-of-a-kind ceremony

Emily is incredible at what she does! She created a unique, personal, and moving ceremony for us. She helped me (bride) feel more comfortable about my wedding stage fright and even helped secure the groomsmen's boutonnières pre-ceremony. She's a gem.
Haley
Haley Sent on 10/02/2024
5 out of 5 rating

One of the best parts of our wedding

We truly cannot say enough wonderful things about Emily. She honestly was the best thing that happened to us during our wedding planning process and was a true bright spot in what can often be a stressful, emotional process. Emily is an absolute gem—her warmth, enthusiasm, and genuine kindness made every step of the journey enjoyable.

Emily made our wedding ceremony not only thoughtful and tear-provoking, but also engaging and fun for us our guests! She took the time to get to know us as a couple, adding those important personal touches so that our wedding truly reflected us as a couple. It was clear that she was invested in making our day special, and the result was a ceremony that left us and our guests in awe. We received sooooooo many compliments afterward, with one close family member even saying, “Everything else could’ve gone wrong, but as long as Emily was there, it would’ve been a great wedding!”

Emily also totally crushed our wedding rehearsal. She was kind, fun, and incredibly organized, helping to wrangle our large, chatty family and make sure everyone knew their part. I didn't even know what I needed for the rehearsal, but Emily did! So we were fine.

If you’re looking for an officiant who will bring love, light, and a touch of magic to your wedding, look no further than Emily. We are so grateful for her and cannot recommend her highly enough!
S
Sarah Sent on 07/18/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Amazing Wedding!

What can I say about Emily that will describe her as wonderful as she is?! She was so unbelievably incredible and was able to capture us and our personalities so well. She made our special day incredible- and has become a part of our family!!!
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WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2026 Winner
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