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About

Lois Heckman is a certified celebrant who officiates in the Poconos. She has years of experience officiating weddings and other life milestones. Lois specializes in unique and meaningful ceremonies that reflect your beliefs and what this important milestones means for you and your loved ones in an honest way. Lois is also an instructor at the Celebrant Academy, and wrote a wedding column for the USA Today Network for 10 years. She has received numerous awards and accolades. She is open to all paths and performs secular, spiritual, humanist, interfaith, and multicultural celebrations.

Services Offered

Lois Heckman would love to be your voice for your love, life, and story. She understands that your wedding is about you, and will assist you many details, including if you wish to say your own vows. Lois specializes in services for diverse couples and families and does not take a strict or dogmatic approach when creating your custom ceremony.

Other Services

Lois creates a custom ceremony, whether you're having an intimate gathering, or a lavish affair. If you're eloping or envisioning less than 35 guests, she offers her beautiful, outdoor ceremony space called Harmony Gardens. It features a large circle with a an arbor with lights over an altar rock. Next to this area is a pavilion, where your guests can mingle for social hour, and serves as a backup for inclement weather. Situated on a large, private property, Harmony Gardens is perfect for those seeking an outdoor ceremony that is relaxed and inspired by nature.

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Frequently asked questions

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

No

What is the starting price for ceremony rehearsals?

$100

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Agnostic
Anglican
Baha'i Faith
Baptist
Buddhist
Catholic
Earth-Based
Episcopalian
Hindu
Islam
Jainism
Jewish
Lutheran
Methodist
Mormon
No Denomination
Orthodox Christian
Pagan
Presbyterian
Quaker
Shinto
Sikhism
Taoist
Unitarian

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.
30-60 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

NJ
PA

What languages do you speak?

English

Reviews of Lois Heckman, Celebrant

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Ashley Sent on 11/05/2021
5 out of 5 rating

The perfect ceremony!

Lois is incredible! We don’t even know where to begin with explaining just how wonderful she is. She was referred to us by a close friend (who is a tough critic) and after listening to her great reviews and looking her up online, we decided to reach out to her. We met on zoom and she told us about herself and asked us about ourselves and our families. We hit it off right away and knew she would help to make our wedding ceremony perfect. Due to covid, we had to postpone our wedding twice. She was beyond understanding and made herself readily available for each of our dates (and for help and emotional support along the way)! She gave us homework, which we submitted separately and she then created the most beautiful ceremony. She incorporated quotes, shared stories and even helped us to choose rituals for our ceremony. It was absolutely perfect. Our guests could not stop commenting on how beautiful and unique the ceremony was, and many of them said it was the nicest ceremony they have ever been to. We feel the same way!
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Samantha Sent on 10/17/2025
5 out of 5 rating

The Best or Nothing

We eloped only days ago at Harmony Gardens in Saylorsburg, PA with Lois Heckman as our officiant. Her property is a perfectly curated place of serenity and love, it feels like a true oasis nestled away from the world. We felt SO welcome there, so happy, so at ease.
Meeting Lois was so zen. Clicked with her right away. We had so many similar views of the world and I was so excited to have someone like her taking us to married life!
Words could not possibly do this woman justice for what she provided for us on our wedding day. I didn’t know it was possible for an elopement to be as incredible and powerful with deep meaning as it was. The vows she wrote for us touched us so deeply!! She made this day so special and we never could have had this experience with anyone else, ever. She is truly the best. We contacted her Oct 3 2025 and were married Oct 14 2025. With how spectacular our day was you would have thought this was planned for months. She is phenomenal, efficient, professional, smart, down to earth, and kind. Thank you so much for giving me the happiest memory of my lifetime, looking deep into my new husband’s eyes and saying “I do!”
Christie
Christie Sent on 10/23/2024
5 out of 5 rating

A personal and connected ceremony to remember

We first discovered Lois because she was listed as a preferred vendor for our venue, Stroudsmoor Country Inn. My husband and I were not looking for a religious ceremony, so we were really happy to read the following on her About page:

“I honor many philosophies, beliefs and traditions - secular, spiritual, and interfaith. However, as a Humanist Celebrant, I do not conduct worship services. I will create a wonderful and unique ceremony that respects and reflects your values, your style, and your life.”

This is EXACTLY what she did. From the first time we met Lois in person at the SCI sampling event, we knew we felt a connection with her. We worked with her over the following year to create a ceremony script that fit us perfectly. I had several people make a point to tell us how much they enjoyed our ceremony. They loved Lois’s energy and how connected she was to us and said it felt really personal with all the details about our backstory. They also really liked the spice ritual, which is an idea she introduced us to! It ended up being such a beautiful day, and we’re so glad we chose Lois to be a part of it.
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Emily Sent on 01/26/2024
5 out of 5 rating

lois is amazing!!

lois is kind, inclusive, flexible, and so so good at her job. our ceremony felt like a celebration of us and our loved ones and i cannot recommend her highly enough.
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Kelley Sent on 11/10/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Best All Around- Makes the day Personal for You

Everyone is still coming up to me and telling me how wonderful Lois was at our wedding ceremony. They were impressed with how much she knew about us and how personal she made the ceremony. Lois is an absolutely pleasure to work with and helped us with the timeline for the big day. She included all the details we mentioned which made our ceremony personal and perfect. I will definitely want Lois around to help us with other celebrations in the future. Thank you!
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Heather Sent on 09/28/2022
5 out of 5 rating

The best of the best!

Lois made our ceremony so memorable and special. She really did her research into us as a couple and put so many personal things into the ceremony that we loved. We and all of our guests were blown away by how amazing Lois was and made the ceremony. You won’t be disappointed in hiring her, she is simply the best there is when it comes to celebrants!!
Yaritza
Yaritza Sent on 09/27/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Amazing celebrant, you will love her too!

Lois is beyond words! She created a memorable ceremony for us, with her vivid storytelling kind of way. Our ceremony went on a roller roster of emotions, with pure excitement throughout. We are so happy with our decision to hire Lois as our celebrant, we couldn't have asked for anyone better! You will not be disappointed with hiring Lois for your special day!

Thank you!! ❤
Lori
Lori Sent on 08/13/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Ceremony of our dreams!

Lois was the perfect choice for our wedding ceremony! The ceremony she wrote was heartfelt, personal, funny and truly embodied us as a couple. We had guests coming up to us all night commenting on how great the ceremony was. It really was perfect! We were skeptical about the ceremony choreography at first because we’d never seen it before but are so glad we trusted her with it! Being able to look out at our loved ones and embrace my husband during the ceremony was exactly what I needed. Lois listened to us, provided feedback, encouraged our ideas, and set a great tone for the rest of the evening.
Amanda
Amanda Sent on 07/20/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Perfect ceremony!

Lois was the first person we hired for our wedding and one of the best decisions we made. She took the time to craft a truly personalized wedding ceremony for us, which is exactly what we wanted. Our guests shared with us that our love story truly came through during our ceremony, and we couldn’t have asked for more!
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Maite Sent on 07/08/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Dream wedding

Lois made our special day perfect! She was so helpful, kind and organized. She is very friendly not only to us but our guests. Everyone raved about her! I would recommend!!
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Awards

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WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2023 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2022 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2021 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2020 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2018 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2017 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2016 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2015 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2014 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2013 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2012 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2011 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2010 Winner

Professional Network & Endorsements

22 Endorsements
Tony Piazza Entertainment and WJOY DJs Tony Piazza Entertainment and WJOY DJs Wedding DJs

The thing about Lois is ability to adapt seamlessly to a bride and grooms collective personalities. When she steps up to officiate she has everyone's undivided attention. She is upbeat and humorous and at the same time deadly serious. Lois is so versatile I don't think there's any style ceremony she hasn't presided over. If you want the very best wedding experience you need to talk to Lois. I highly recommend her with 100% confidence.

Susie Forrester Photography Susie Forrester Photography Wedding Photographers

When I see Lois Heckman officiating at a wedding, I know all is well. She is professional, calm, and presents a personal ceremony unique to each couple. No two services are the same. Lois brings 100% to every wedding. She cares about her couples. It really shows. I highly recommend her.

A Great Mix DJ Entertainment A Great Mix DJ Entertainment Wedding DJs

Lois is heads above the rest when it comes to celebrants. Her ceremonies are deeply personal and enjoyable. The tone is affectionate, professional, and enjoyable. She takes time to get to know her couples and really takes pride in what she does. We enjoy working with her and know that the ceremony will go off without a hitch when she is the one helping couples start their new lives together.

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