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Birchwood Manor is an elegant Georgian mansion and wedding venue located in Whippany, New Jersey. Nestled on over 20 acres of magnificent, park-like splendor, the venue is just thirty minutes from New York City. This exquisite establishment features crystal chandeliered ballrooms, glass-enclosed atriums, covered outdoor patios, lush gardens, and much more.

Facilities and Capacities
Birchwood Manor has many event spaces available. Upon arrival, guests will be greeted by a dramatic spiral staircase in the venue’s lobby and directed to a separate cocktail hour room, followed by the main reception room. The Grand Ballroom is the largest celebration space available. Able to accommodate up to 800 guests, the breathtaking interior feature four magnificent crystal chandeliers and a solid wood dance floor. Similarly, the Jefferson Ballroom offers an elegant setting for an extravagant affair. Here, couples can celebrate with up to 425 guests amidst hand-painted frescos, tall bay windows, and a beveled mirror wall. Other indoor options for more intimate gatherings include the Madison Room and Ann Farrell's Room. Alternatively, couples are welcome to host their nuptials on the venue's picturesque grounds. The gazebo, foundations, and enchanting gardens are all beautiful backdrops for ceremonies and receptions.

Cuisine
Birchwood Manor is proud to expertly prepare exquisite continental cuisine. Couples are welcome to choose from menu packages or customize their own. Hors d'oeuvres, buffet, stations, and plated serving styles are a few of the options available. Dessert menus include customized wedding cakes, a chocolate fountain, pastries, an ice cream cart, and a Viennese Table of selections from their bakery. Dietary alternatives such as gluten-free, lactose-free, nut-free, and vegetarian options are also available. Throughout milestone celebrations, couples and their guests can avail of the venue's full bartending services.

Services Offered
The elegant venue offers an incredible combination of full-service catering, personal services, and thoughtful amenities to customize special celebrations. Thanks to their event planning options, couples can receive support throughout their wedding journeys. The dedicated staff is committed to bringing event visions to life.

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Frequently asked questions

Do you have a site fee for wedding receptions at your venue?

No

Do you have a site fee for wedding ceremonies at your venue?

Yes

Which of the following are included in starting site fee?

Bridal Suite
Chairs
China
Clean Up
Event Planning
Flatware
Glassware
Linens
Parking
Set Up
Tables

Which of the following are included in the cost of wedding catering?

Cake Cutting
Dessert
Server(s)
Wedding Cake

Which of the following are included in the starting price for bar service?

Bartender(s)
Champagne Toast
House Beer
House Liquor
House Wine
Limited Bar
Open Bar
Premium Liquor
Signature Drink

What is the minimum number of guests required to book your venue?

50

How many event spaces or rooms does your venue offer?

4

Describe your venue:

Ballroom
Banquet Hall
Garden
Mansion

What kind of settings are available?

Indoor
Covered Outdoor
Uncovered Outdoor

Which of the following wedding events does your venue service?

Ceremony
Reception
Bridal Shower
Engagement Party
Elopements
Rehearsal Dinner

What event services do you offer?

Bar Services
Catering Services
Clean Up
Event Planner
Event Rentals
Get Ready Rooms
Liability Insurance
Outside Vendors
Wifi

What catering services do you offer?

Buffet
Cocktail Reception
Dessert
Family Style
French Service
Hors d'oeuvres
Outside Cake
Plated
Server(s)
Stations

What bar services do you provide?

Bartender(s)
Cash Bar
Champagne Toast
House Beer
House Liquor
House Wine
Limited Bar
Liquor License
Open Bar
Premium Liquor
Signature Drink
Specialty Beer
Specialty Wine

What event items are available?

Altar/Arch
Chairs
Chair Covers
Dance Floor
Drapery
Tables

What food and beverage items are available?

Barware
China
Chocolate Fountain
Flatware
Glassware
Linens

What transportation and access is available?

Parking
Shuttle
Valet
Wheelchair Access

Reviews of Birchwood Manor

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Birchwood Manor is a highly recommended wedding venue with a beautiful setting and exceptional service, especially from Farrell and Michael. Multiple reviewers praised the attentive staff, stress-free planning process, and delicious food, including a memorable cocktail hour. The venue is described as elegant and well-maintained, offering a picturesque backdrop for weddings, anniversaries, and other events. Overall, Birchwood Manor exceeded expectations and left a lasting impression on guests, making it a top choice for couples looking for a dream wedding venue.

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Birchwood Manor is a highly recommended wedding venue with a beautiful setting and exceptional service, especially from Farrell and Michael. Multiple reviewers praised the attentive staff, stress-free planning process, and delicious food, including a memorable cocktail hour. The venue is described as elegant and well-maintained, offering a picturesque backdrop for weddings, anniversaries, and other events. Overall, Birchwood Manor exceeded expectations and left a lasting impression on guests, making it a top choice for couples looking for a dream wedding venue.

Alyssa
Alyssa Sent on 07/04/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Birchwood goes above and beyond

From the moment we stepped foot on the property we knew we landed on somewhere special. It was a no-brainer to pick Birchwood Manor as our wedding venue not only because of the beautiful grounds but how outstanding Farrell is. We had investigated about 10 venues but Birchwood Manor stood apart from them all. After having our wedding we can say how we made the right choice. All of the wedding party was comfortable and able to get ready on site. We were stress free to whole day. Farrell executed our plans every step of the way. She accommodated the entire Manor for us to use the entire day. The food ...and especially our wedding cake was out of this world. Our guests enjoyed our special day as much as we did. We are so very thankful to Farrell and how amazing everything turned out and so happy we chose this venue. To any bride out there I highly recommend this venue.
Rachel
Rachel Sent on 11/11/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Made our wedding day perfect in every way!

Our wedding at Birchwood Manor was an absolute dream come true! The entire team, especially Farrell, made it the best day of our lives. From start to finish, they were on top of every single detail, making the weeks leading up to our big day as relaxing and enjoyable as can be. I never had a moment of doubt, knowing they were taking care of everything and would bring my vision to life flawlessly.

Farrell, in particular, was incredible—she offered round-the-clock support and treated us like family. Not only did she go above and beyond to make sure that my husband, our families, and friends were comfortable and well cared for from the beginning of planning to the wedding day, but she handled the wonderful chaos of our families with grace.

She truly made us feel special and took care of every little thing, creating a beautiful celebration that we’ll never forget. We are so grateful for her and the Birchwood Manor team! Thank you for making our wedding day perfect in every way!
Iranya
Iranya Sent on 07/20/2024
5 out of 5 rating

My Daughter Sweet 16

Sweet 16 at Birchwood Manor.. I can't recommend them enough! Beautiful venue
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Danielle Sent on 01/07/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Wedding of our dreams

Our wedding was absolutely perfect at the Birchwood Manor. My husband and I cannot recommend this venue enough. Every experience working with Farrell and her team leading up to the day was fun and stress free. All of our questions were answered and every accommodation was made to make our wedding exactly what we envisioned. Farrell was absolutely amazing on our wedding day. She went above and beyond to make it the absolute most perfect day. The Birchwood Manor is a stunning venue that is beautifully maintained. It’s unique decor and beautiful grounds were so lovely for all of our photos. Our guests had an amazing night and everybody couldn’t stop talking about the cocktail hour. All the food on our wedding night was exceptional. We really cannot say enough good things. Thank you again for helping us create the wedding of our dreams!
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Nicole Sent on 12/30/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Best day of our lives!!

Words cannot express how thankful we are to Birchwood Manor for making our dream wedding come true. From the start of the wedding planning process until the very end, our banquet manager and maitre d, Farrell, made sure every one of our requests were granted. She made the whole process easy and enjoyable and we knew from the moment we met with her that we were in great hands. Three months later, and our guests are still raving about the delicious food. The cocktail hour had multiple stations ranging from sushi bar, seafood bar, carvings, fajitas, to our favorite gourmet mac and cheese and more. I was even surprised by custom ice carvings! The lobster tail and filet mignon dinner was melt in your mouth perfection. And for an exciting finish, there was an endless assortment of passed desserts that had our guests tasting them all. The service was fast and friendly, and accommodating to some of my guests dietary requests. Even though it ended up raining prior to the start of our ceremony, the staff at Birchwood was able to set up an inside ceremony that was just as beautiful. Thank you once again to Birchwood Manor and Farrell for one of the best nights of our lives!!!
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Julianna Sent on 11/09/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Perfect for any wedding vibe/style

there are not enough words to describe how wonderful and beautiful my day at the birchwood was! my parents got married at the birchwood almost 30 years ago & i am so lucky that the beauty of the location was not only preserved but progressed. My brother and I had our communions there and I got to walk down the aisle in the room my communion was and have my first dance where my parents had theirs. if you have the luxury of having an event of the birchwood, you won’t be disappointed. they will surpass every expectation. Mike and Farrell are the most kind, accessible, and dedicated people I have ever met. They were there for me in every moment. The day is always stressful as a bride- but Farrell made my day so smoothe and fun and I couldn’t praise her enough. They took the time to make our day one like out of a story book. My husband and I were truly on cloud 9- because they considered every detail to make our day as memorable as it was. It was not our first event here and it will not be our last. The most beautiful venue employs the most beautiful people, if your looking for a perfect place- go to THE BIRCHWOOD!!!
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Chris Sent on 10/22/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Christopher Clark

The Birchwood is elite with customer service and doesn’t disappoint. Working with Michael 27 years ago for my wedding and working with him again for my daughter was like going back in time. His professionalism and commitment to quality has exceeded our expectations. Then there is Farrell from day one did not disappoint. Her attention to detail and her commitment to my daughters happiness was beyond overwhelming. Four days before the wedding calling us with different ideas for ice sculptures to making sure the cocktail hour was over the top was just unbelievable. I will not only recommend the Birchwood I will continue to ensure I do business with them. Thank you all at the Birchwood. You made my daughter and son in laws day. A special thanks to Farrell and Michael.
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Sharon Sent on 10/22/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Amazing wedding venue!!!

We fell in love with Birchwood Manor the first time we visited 2 years ago as the first person we met with was Michael Marino, who was so warm and welcoming from the beginning. Since then, we’ve worked with Michael on planning our wedding and he was so great to work with. He was easy to communicate with, super energetic and full of positive energy throughout the planning, and very informative. We wanted our dogs in the ceremony a lower guest minimum for fear that less people at the time would attend due to covid and Michael quickly accommodated our requests, no questions asked! Our wedding was 10/14/23 and Farrell was our maitre’d. After getting home, my matron of honor, brother in law and mom had nothing but AMAZING things to say about Farrell. According to my mom, Farrell saw my grandpa had trouble with his boutonniere and she, without us asking, started helping him and all the other groomsmen clip them on. She worked with my husband on getting a little last-minute seating mishap resolved (we had some unplanned guests who had initially rsvp’d no and showed up). She was so good with children as our flower girl and flower boy/ring bearer were 4 and 7 and she interacted with them and helped show them what to do at the ceremony. Our day of coordinator unfortunately had an emergency and was not there part of the wedding but Farrell really took over and checked in on us constantly and took charge of the day. My matron of honor said Farrell was so nice and reliable and amazing at her job. Going back to the wedding, our guests couldn’t stop talking about how gorgeous the venue was, down to the chandeliers in the ballroom. Our wedding was unfortunately outdoors but Birchwood was so accommodating with allowing us to use the Grand Ballroom for the ceremony as the reception was already set up elsewhere. We upgraded the cocktail hour to deluxe and with both my husband and I being from Chinese families with high expectations in regards to seafood, the lobster tails were gone instantly as our guests loved them so much. People raved about how good the cocktail hour was, including the carving station and shrimp scampi station. The ice sculpture was a beautiful and elegant touch. All in all, we and our guests had nothing but an amazing time at Birchwood. We have nothing but positive experiences through our 2 years of wedding planning. Thank you Michael and Farrell and Birchwood Manor for helping us plan our wedding and make our wedding day visions really come to life!
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Ava Sent on 08/03/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Simply the best!!!

I could not have been happier with my venue choice. I traveled to several places before deciding on my wedding venue, and Birchwood Manor truly stood out for its beauty, elegance, spaciousness, and most importantly, the banquet manager Farrell. Farrell is a kind, dedicated, and experienced manager who goes out of her way to make your dream day come true!!! I know that my wedding day would not have turned out the way it did, if it had not been for Farrell. I planned my wedding for a while (about two years), and throughout the whole time, Farrell was there, helping me sort through all my questions and concerns. Even on the wedding day, Farrell stayed until the end of night, making sure the wedding goes smoothly and resolving any unexpected issues so that we can enjoy our day.

If I am to have any large events in the future, I would for sure come back to Birchwood Manor. The venue is so elegant and well-maintained, and it exudes an air of grandeur and warmth that comes from the fact that it's been family-owned for generations. You can tell that the venue is taken care of with affection. And the chandeliers! I fell in love when I first saw them. You cannot make a better decision--if you are on the fence, choose them without any hesitation. Highly, highly recommended!
Evans
Evans Sent on 05/04/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Appreciation

I had the wedding celebration i always wished for thanks so much everything went smoothly my wife and i really appreciate you guys and we will endeavor to recommend others. Thanks again.
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Awards

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WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2024 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2023 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2022 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2020 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2017 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2013 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2012 Winner

Professional Network & Endorsements

2 Endorsements
Ultimate Entertainment Ultimate Entertainment Wedding DJs

Our company has entertained at numerous venues throughout the entire tri-state area and Birchwood Manor ranks among the best. Their attention to detail and the ways in which I have personally witnessed them treating their guests truly stands out. I would strongly recommend this facility for any occasion.

Anthony Ziccardi Studios Anthony Ziccardi Studios Wedding Photographers

Stunning venue, with many great opportunities for beautiful photos, need a picture perfect place for a ceremony they got you covered. Anthony Ziccardi Studios loves working at Birchwood Manor! Contact Michelle for great deals and service! and tell them Anthony sent you!

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Birchwood Manor frequently asked questions

Birchwood Manor includes the following items and services for wedding events in its starting site fee:
  • Bridal Suite
  • Chairs
  • China
  • Clean Up
  • Event Planning
  • Flatware
  • Glassware
  • Linens
  • Parking
  • Set Up
  • Tables
Birchwood Manor includes the following items and services in its wedding catering costs:
  • Cake Cutting
  • Dessert
  • Server(s)
  • Wedding Cake
The bar service starting price at Birchwood Manor includes:
  • Bartender(s)
  • Champagne Toast
  • House Beer
  • House Liquor
  • House Wine
  • Limited Bar
  • Open Bar
  • Premium Liquor
  • Signature Drink
The space offered by Birchwood Manor for wedding events is known for:
  • Ballroom
  • Banquet Hall
  • Garden
  • Mansion
Birchwood Manor offers the following indoor/outdoor options for weddings:
  • Indoor
  • Covered Outdoor
  • Uncovered Outdoor
Birchwood Manor offers the following types of wedding events:
  • Ceremony
  • Reception
  • Bridal Shower
  • Engagement Party
  • Elopements
  • Rehearsal Dinner
Birchwood Manor offers the following services for wedding events:
  • Bar Services
  • Catering Services
  • Clean Up
  • Event Planner
  • Event Rentals
  • Get Ready Rooms
  • Liability Insurance
  • Outside Vendors
  • Wifi
Birchwood Manor offers the following furniture and decor items for weddings:
  • Altar/Arch
  • Chairs
  • Chair Covers
  • Dance Floor
  • Drapery
  • Tables
Birchwood Manor is recommended by 99% of couples who have used their services. Their overall rating is 4.9 out of 5 with the following breakdown: 5 in quality of service, 5 in flexibility, 4.9 in average response time, 4.9 in professionalism and 4.9 in value.
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