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Closure of Whispering Oaks Terrace

It is with heavy hearts that we announce Whispering Oaks Terrace will be closing its doors permanently.

After 17 years of hosting unforgettable events and creating countless memories for our guests, the decision to cease operations has not been easy.

Our journey since opening has been incredibly rewarding, and we extend our deepest gratitude to all our patrons, partners, and the community for their unwavering support and cherished relationships. We are proud to have been a part of so many special moments and celebrations.

Please note, Whispering Oaks Terrace will no longer be accepting bookings or holding events beyond December 31, 2024. We encourage those with inquiries or needing assistance with existing arrangements to contact us at [contact information] at their earliest convenience.

As we bid farewell, we look back with fondness on all the joy and camaraderie Whispering Oaks Terrace has been privileged to witness.

Thank you for allowing us to be a part of your lives and celebrations.

we encourage you to reach out to

Missy @ Events by Ellis

951-514-5089

She can assist you in finding the perfect location.

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Frequently asked questions

Do you have a site fee for wedding receptions at your venue?

Yes

What is the starting site fee for wedding receptions during peak season?

3,500

What is the starting site fee for wedding receptions during off-peak season?

3,500

Do you have a site fee for wedding ceremonies at your venue?

Yes

What is the starting site fee for wedding ceremonies during peak season?

3,500

What is the starting site fee for wedding ceremonies during off-peak season?

3,500

Which of the following are included in the starting site fee?

Bridal Suite
Chairs
Lighting/Sound
Parking
Tables

Which of the following are included in the starting price for bar service?

Bartender(s)
Champagne Toast

How many event spaces or rooms does your venue offer?

4

Describe your venue:

Barn
Farm/Ranch
Garden
Historic Building

What kind of settings are available?

Indoor
Uncovered Outdoor

Which of the following wedding events does your venue service?

Ceremony
Reception
Bridal Shower
Engagement Party
Elopements
Rehearsal Dinner

What event services do you offer?

Bar Services
Clean Up
Event Planner
Get Ready Rooms

What catering services do you offer?

Buffet
Dessert
Family Style
Hors d'oeuvres
Outside Cake
Plated
Stations

What bar services do you provide?

Open Bar
Outside Alcohol

What event items are available?

Altar/Arch
Centerpieces
Chairs
Dance Floor
Decor
Lighting
Tables

What food and beverage items are available?

Linens

What transportation and access is available?

Parking
Shuttle
Wheelchair Access

What months are included in your peak season?

January
February
March
April
May
June
July
August
September
October
November
December

What months are included in your off-peak season?

January
February
March
April
May
June
July
August
September
October
November
December

Reviews of Whispering Oaks Terrace

Carolyn
Carolyn Sent on 11/10/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Love this venue so much

This place was my fairytale wedding venue. They had so much stuff to use and help complete the look I wanted. The owners were so nice and flexible, they worked so well with an OCD bride like me. They didn't blink an eye when I came again and again to make sure every detail was perfect. Even during the event they were there to help and make sure everything went perfect for our big day. Highly appreciated the owners, and recommend this venue.
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Anita Sent on 07/19/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Our dream wedding

I am thankful my husband stumbled upon Whispering Oaks Terrace. We had looked at so many venues but kept being met with the overwhelming disappointment of being priced out. I knew we wanted a whimsical, romantic, and timeless night under the stars. I was beginning to think I'd have to change my dream wedding.

When my husband showed me this venue online I found myself holding my breath. It was perfect. Obviously we couldn't afford it... It was everything I'd wanted. After seeing the pricing I collected my jaw off the ground and we ran to see it the next morning. Nathan, the owner gave us a tour and told us the charming story of the venue he hand built. Needless to say this was a easy YES.

Dawn, the owner, was responsive and kind. She was always patient with my questions and helped us have a successful wedding day. They also require you to hire Melissa Ellis as a day of wedding coordinator. Missy is a beautiful human who is incredibly responsive, direct, and VERY HELPFUL. So helpful we hired her as our wedding planner or the day wouldn't have gone as smoothly without her.

Whispering Oaks Terrace is a dream, so many hidden gems and places to take pinterest worthy photos. We had a little over 130 guest. Everyone keeps telling us how much fun they had at our wedding.

Thank you Dawn, Nathan, and Missy for helping facilitate our dream wedding.

Love,
The Smiths
Juanita
Juanita Sent on 07/20/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Rustic Wedding

I fell in love with Whispering Oaks Terrace as soon as I walked on the property. It is so big and beautiful filled with oak trees, succulents, lights, and antiques. It was exactly what I was looking for in a venue. Dawn and Nathan answered any questions I had and were very friendly. They also have a room that you can rent for your rehearsal dinner which was a life saver. I loved my wedding.
Maxx
Maxx Sent on 03/17/2019
5 out of 5 rating

A breath taking experience!

Got married here last month and I must say it was everything I could have asked for from a venue. The recommended vendors are a must have if you want it all to run smoothly and get Missy because she really made the whole expierence run without error. Thank you guys again for having our wedding here it meant the world to us.
Chanda
Chanda Sent on 02/24/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Just STOP looking...This is your venue!!❤

From start to finish...Hands down, the BEST venue by far in price, amenities and customer service (and I have worked with several venues for various events in the past)!! Nathan and Dawn are amazing to work with, quick response to any and all inquiries and they really do treat you and your guests as if you were their family in their home, not just someone "renting space from them." These guys KNOW and LOVE their venue and will help you every step of the way, giving you ideas, tips suggestions on what works best in the space. Seriously, book Whispering Oaks Terrace!! We did for my daughter's wedding yesterday, and even before we left the venue, family and friend's were texting about how "amazing" and "wonderful" the wedding was and how perfect the venue is!! Thank you so very much, Nathan and Dawn, for helping to make my daughter and daughter in law's (yes, this venue is 100% LGBTQ friendly, too!!) wedding spectacular and everything (and more!!) they dreamed about❤❤ ❤
Mother of the "broom" (bride/groom)
Wedding date 2-23-2019
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Lori Sent on 05/23/2018
5 out of 5 rating
I can't say enough about the venue and staff. The staff were all knowledgeable, helpful, professional, and prompt. The venue was spotless and perfect for everything we did. I highly recommend Whispering Oaks Terrace to anyone looking for a top-notch venue in Southern California.
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Donnelle Sent on 05/31/2015
5 out of 5 rating
Living in CA, I was scared we would be priced out of the state as far as venues are concerned. As the bedrock upon which every other wedding decision takes place, it's perhaps the most important piece of the puzzle, and finding one that would fit our small budget AND "us" was going to be no joke.

Then I randomly stumbled upon Whispering Oaks Terrace, and my heart stopped in my chest. I immediately sent the link to my fiance and said "Here's our wedding venue." He immediately agreed.

Only 90 minutes outside our home in LA, we were able to book a place that combines a BEAUTIFUL ceremony area to a GORGEOUS reception area (a huge win for those of us who hate driving from one place to another at others' weddings), AND includes a stunning indoor option in their lovely barn. If you've researched CA venues, you know there's a stunning amount of places that don't include an indoor option for their outdoor option. What happens with inclement weather?! We didn't want to take that chance, and Whispering Oaks Terrace doesn't make you. Even better, they include the use of the indoor option for free. That's right, you don't have to book it separately (which again, a lot of places make you do that!)

You also get to choose and bring all your own vendors. Say bye bye to some overpriced catering partner being forced down your throat!

The place is so naturally beautiful with its two gazebos, grape vines, floral bushes, and winery-meets-rustic barn look, you don't even need to decorate much at all. We spent maybe $140 on fake flower vines and tulle and that represented our colors perfectly. The rest you just don't need to touch. We didn't even use tablecloths because we liked how the wood slats of the tables looked. Even better, since there's an umbrella up over each, we skipped centerpieces and just decorated the pole! Gorgeous!

And at this INSANELY low price for everything you get here, you will not find a better value in CA. I guarantee it.

Book here NOW.
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User2116780 Sent on 03/31/2015
5 out of 5 rating
I am so excited to get married at this venue. The owner, Nathan, has such a great personality and is funny too! He will pretty much let you do anything you want on the property (except have open flame). There are many options as to where you can have the ceremony and reception, including a barn! Nathan will also give you vendors info who have been there that are super affordable. He does not want you to spend more than you have to, so he has tips from seeing other brides get married there in the past. All in all I am very pleased with the service we got there and can't wait to get married here later this year! :)
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User1984402 Sent on 11/23/2014
5 out of 5 rating
If you are looking for a rustic venue for a great price, go check out Whispering Oaks Terrace. The venue is gorgeous and has so many opportunities for great photos. You will have the option of getting married in the barn, or outside in a lovely covered patio with gazebo stage. The owners are very friendly. We had our wedding earlier this month and our guest were amazed at how beautiful the venue was, especially with all the lights after dark. I wouldn't recommend using the outside area in the winter months unless you have plenty of heat lamps. We were lucky enough that the weather was absolutely perfect and our guests weren't cold at all after the sun went down. This is a BYO venue, so basically you arrange for your own caterer, flowers, decorations, etc which allows you to save $$ and have tons of options. You are renting the space basically from the owners and then supplying the rest. They do offer a cleanup service as well, which we utilized since we didn't want to come back to wipe down tables, take out trash, etc. Anyhow please check them out!
S
Stephanie Sent on 10/25/2014
5 out of 5 rating
I had my wedding here about a month ago. It was the most amazing location! The barn was beautiful for our ceremony and the outside reception was gorgeous with all the lights and wine barrels. The staff was fantastic and everyone Nathan referred to us was amazing as well. It was a very good price as well. We had to get all our own venders, but it was definitely better that way. We were able to find great people to help us out. Missy was the most amazing wedding coordinator for the day of! She went above and beyond what I expected and was a lifesaver! We could not have gotten through the day of with out her. Gava D's BBQ was a hit with everyone and we pretty much ran out of food because it was so delicious!!! Faultline music service is the DJ we went with after a mess with another DJ. He was so helpful with everything and extremely professional. He played all the music we wanted and was very affordable. We are so happy to have had our wedding at this beautiful venue! I would recommend it to anyone on a budget or anyone looking to have a beautiful barn or outdoor wedding! Thanks so much for everything!
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Awards

35
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2020 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2016 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2013 Winner

Professional Network & Endorsements

1 Endorsement
Kelly Robertson Makeup Kelly Robertson Makeup Wedding Hair & Makeup

The moment you approach this amazing venue, you'll know that this is a a perfect place to be. I've been fortunate to have been invited to Whispering Oaks as a wedding guest and as a vendor/ makeup artist for a bride who selected this gorgeous location. I can assure you that it's first-class all the way! The property is amongst a unique, natural setting with spectacular views. The gardens are lush and I've been blessed to the beauty that lights up the property at night. HIGHLY RECOMMENDED!

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Whispering Oaks Terrace frequently asked questions

Whispering Oaks Terrace includes the following items and services for wedding events in its starting site fee:
  • Bridal Suite
  • Chairs
  • Lighting/Sound
  • Parking
  • Tables
The bar service starting price at Whispering Oaks Terrace includes:
  • Bartender(s)
  • Champagne Toast
The space offered by Whispering Oaks Terrace for wedding events is known for:
  • Barn
  • Farm/Ranch
  • Garden
  • Historic Building
Whispering Oaks Terrace offers the following indoor/outdoor options for weddings:
  • Indoor
  • Uncovered Outdoor
Whispering Oaks Terrace offers the following types of wedding events:
  • Ceremony
  • Reception
  • Bridal Shower
  • Engagement Party
  • Elopements
  • Rehearsal Dinner
Whispering Oaks Terrace offers the following services for wedding events:
  • Bar Services
  • Clean Up
  • Event Planner
  • Get Ready Rooms
Whispering Oaks Terrace offers the following furniture and decor items for weddings:
  • Altar/Arch
  • Centerpieces
  • Chairs
  • Dance Floor
  • Decor
  • Lighting
  • Tables
Whispering Oaks Terrace is recommended by 94% of couples who have used their services. Their overall rating is 4.7 out of 5 with the following breakdown: 4.8 in flexibility, 4.7 in quality of service, 4.7 in average response time, 4.7 in value and 4.6 in professionalism.

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