Rev. Pamela L. Brehm 4.9 out of 5.0 5.0/5.0
Wedding Ceremonies as exceptional and unique as you . . . tailored to meet your heart's desire!
Boyertown, PA 19512
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Services: Officiant
Established: 2001
Employees: 1
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About
Sacred events deserve ceremonies as exceptional and unique as you.  Have your ceremony tailored to meet your heart’s desire.

Reverend Pamela is an Ordained Interfaith Minister having graduated in 2001 from the Circle of Miracles School of Ministries
in New Britain (formerly Wycombe), Pennsylvania.  As an Interfaith Minister, she takes great pleasure in helping couples create their ideal wedding
ceremony.

It is her belief that your wedding day should reflect the individual personalities of you and your intended along with sharing
your sentiments as a couple with your invited guests.  It should be as unique and special as the two of you!  So many people
want to tell you how things should be done.  Rev. Pamela feels the decisions should be all yours since this is YOUR very
special day.   To that end, she works with couples to create the wedding ceremony that is most meaningful for them!  There
are no “musts,” only guidelines as to how a ceremony takes place.

If you are pondering who might best be able to help you create your special ceremony, please consider Rev. Pamela L. Brehm.

Reverend Pamela is located in Berks County, Pennsylvania and is available to officiate at ceremonies in the area as well as
the surrounding counties of Montgomery, Bucks, Chester, Lehigh, and Philadelphia.  She is also able to travel outside of those
areas and has performed ceremonies in Harrisburg, Lancaster and New Jersey.  Rev. Pamela is a member of the American Association of Wedding Officiants.

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Endorsements
Reverand Pam has always been a pleasure to work with. She makes sure that the couple she is marrying has everything that they need before & after they get married. She wallks every couple through their Ceremony needs whether or not they want something that is very spirtual or more of a non-traditional Wedding. She is so easy to get a long with & are always eager to not only take advice but also give it as well. I have had the enjoyment of referring Reverand Pam to a couple of my Brides & Grooms myself & they have all been very pleased with the service that they had received.
Rev. Pam was an absolute pleasure to work with. Right away I could tell that she is a very caring individual who enjoys being part of the special wonderfulness of wedding ceremonies. She has a warm, pleasant and calm demeanor on what tends to be a very fast paced environment. She is professional in every way and I would highly recommend her to all future brides and grooms.
Pamela has always done a wonderful job everytime I have been able to work with her.
Pamela has a respect for tradition while embracing the fact that today's bride and groom want something more tailored to their own personal lives and tastes. Her beautiful words and helpful nature radiate the joy in her spirit that creates a reassuring and peaceful atmosphere for your wedding day. Her packages are affordable and cover a wide range of options, from simple to extravagant, making her services an all around perfect choice no matter who you are!

Frequently Asked Questions for Officiant
What officiant services do you provide?
Civil Union, Interfaith Ceremony, Non-religious Ceremony, Same Sex, Single Religion Ceremony
 
What religious affiliations do you serve?
Agnostic, Baha'i Faith, Buddhist, Christian (no denomination), Christian - Anglican, Christian - Baptist, Christian - Catholic, Christian - Episcopalian, Christian - Lutheran, Christian - Methodist, Christian - Mormon, Christian - Orthodox, Christian - Presbyterian, Christian - Quaker, Evangelical, Hindu, Islam, Jainism, Jewish, Muslim, Shinto, Sikhism, Taoist
 
Can you accommodate the hearing impaired?
No
 
Are you willing to perform a ceremony at a non-religious site?
Absolutely! Many couples, even those affiliated with a particular church are choosing to hold their wedding ceremony at their reception venue. This makes things much easier, and less stressful, for the Bride and Groom as well as their wedding party and guests.
 
Are you flexible in the wording used throughout the ceremony, including the vows?
Always! I am there to offer guidance and support along the way as we co-create their wedding ceremony. It is THEIR day and they make all of the decisions.
 
Do you allow the couple to write their own vows, if desired?
Definitely! Vows written by the Bride and Groom can greatly enhance a wedding ceremony. Often times though, couples are a bit anxious about speaking such private words in a public ceremony. If the Bride and Groom wish to write and speak their own vows to each other, I support them 100% and do everything within my power to put them at ease about doing so. I'll even assist them when requested.
 
Do you have a list of readings pre-selected, from which the couple must choose?
I have a list of Readings, both secular and sacred that can be used to enhance a wedding ceremony. It is totally up to the couple to decide if they would like to include a poetry or sacred verse.
 
Do you require that premarital counseling be done?
No. In my opinion, if a couple is mature enough in their decision to marry they have already done their own form of premarital counseling through the conversations of their daily life. If a couple would like Spiritual Counseling to enhance their relationship, I am happy to offer that to them.
 
Are you willing to perform pre-ceremony rehearsals?
Yes, as requested. Some Brides like the idea of a run-through before the wedding ceremony while others feel the desire to "go with the flow." I am happy to facilitate all rehearsals since it does take an extra burden off the Bride and Groom.

Additional Questions and Answers
How soon before our wedding should we book our Officiant?

It is suggested that you book your Officiant as soon as you have reserved your reception venue.  That being said, you can begin interviewing Officiants while you are still looking for your reception site.  That way, you will have begun the leg-work necessary to find the ideal Officiant for the two of you!

Can we meet before we reserve you to Officiate for us?

Yes, and it is suggested that we meet to see how we "click."  The relationship between a couple and their Officiant is vital to their wedding ceremony.  You must feel comfortable that the Officiant you choose truly understands what you want and will abide by your wishes.  I meet with couples in my home office and all meetings pre- and post- booking are always free of charge.

Can we include options in our wedding ceremony like a unity candle?

Most definitely!  Your wedding ceremony should be a reflection of the two of you and the love you share for each other.  We can also add customs or traditional services from your upbringing: special music, poetry or sacred readings, prayer, presentation of flowers, wine sharing, sand ceremony, vows to the children, breaking of the glass etc. The possibilities are endless and it is all chosen by the two of you to suit your heart's desire!  I want this very special day to be just as you both have envisioned it!

Do we have to memorize our vows? 

Not unless you want too!  Most couples choose to repeat their vows following my lead.  I feed the short phrases to you and then you repeat them to your Bride or Groom.  Should you suffer a bit of a "brain freeze", I tell my couples to just look at me and I will discreetly whisper the phrase for them again and no one will be the wiser.

Can you officiate at a wedding with short notice?

As long as I am available, I am happy to accommodate your needs.  I have had couples who were originally planning larger weddings and receptions.  As time passed, they decided to get married in private and then hold the celebration either later in the day or at some future time.   It all depends on your comfort level and what you desire.

Tips and Advice
It is very important to select an Officiant who truly understands and is willing to give you the wedding ceremony of your dreams!  Your Officiant should be flexible yet be able to direct and support you as you choose the words you wish to share with your partner on your Wedding day.  First impressions count and I truly feel you will know in your heart when you have found the Officiant that is ideal for the two of you!