The Pre-Wedding Bucket List
There’s also plenty of fun to be had that will prepare you for life as a married couple
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Time’s ticking as you get closer to walking down the aisle, but there still a lot for you and your fiancé(e) to do before saying “I do!” After all, marriage is forever, and you want to make sure you’re good and ready for it. While there are tons of things to discuss in terms of your relationships and your futures—yes, we mean having tough talks about finances, kids, religion, and career goals—there’s also plenty of fun to be had that will equally prepare you for life as a married couple.
Give these pre-wedding bucket list ideas a try:
Travel Together
Never gone on vacation—just the two of you—together? Do it before taking those wedding vows. You’ll learn a lot about each other during the experience, because travel is a microcosm of the worst of times (hello long flights) and best of times (awe-inducing sunsets on a beach, anyone?). Learning what each of you enjoys on vacation will help you find a happy balance for future trips, teach you some negotiating skills, and inspire adventures to come (yes, honeymoon!). Still not buying it? According to the US Travel Association, studies have proven that couples who travel together feel closer, consider each other “best friends,” and even find more romance and better sex.Travel Apart
Yes, after reading all of the above we still want you to take a solo trip with some friends. Sometimes, it’s good to miss each other for a few days. Having your own identity outside of your relationship is important to hold on to, and a little vacation always helps remind us of that. You’ll also learn some good communication skills—no more quick “Dinner at 6?” text messages. Spending a week apart will lead to late night phone calls and new ways to connect with each other.Try Out Each Other’s Hobbies
Is he always booking a Sunday morning tee time? Are you a constant book worm? Give each other’s hobbies a try before dismissing them as yours and mine. If he’s into golf, ask him to take you to a driving range and teach you how to swing. Share your favorite books and make it a book club for two. Love movies? Introduce her to the classics! While not every hobby will be a fit for both of you, there’s bound to be one or two that stick and become joint activities for life. Shared interests will make your relationship stronger overtime.
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