Would you rather... cut the shower or the bach party?

The bridal shower. I'm not having one though. And I'm probably not having a bachelorette party.

But I definitely wouldn't want the groom to not have his party. Why would I take something away from him instead of myself? And bachelor parties certainly don't have to be about parading "around town drunk". I'm sure drinking will be involved at my FH's party, but I also know it's more about his best friend getting to plan a fun night out for him, celebrating that he's found someone he actually wants to marry.

The Bach party for sure

Makes sense, Alli! Welcome to WeddingWire and congrats on your engagement!

Hi Ellebt! I get what you mean! What are you doing for your bachelorette party?

I'd rather cut the shower because we already have registries.

I would cut both but if I had to make a choice then the bach party.

Hi Amanda! Good point, as there's already registries for the wedding day. Are you cutting your shower and having a bachelorette party only?

Hi Caitlyn! So fun! Where are you and your girls going out for your bachelorette?

I think I would skip the bachelorette party. Im very excited for my bridal shower to see all my family and friends and my fiance's family come together

Shower - bach parties don't need to be drunken nights on the town, my twin sister's wasn't, for her's it was a lovely meal in the private dining room of a swish restaurant. Yes there was wine flowing, but it was all very dignified. A sophisticated bach party is more fun than a shower!

Cut the shower lol I'd rather have a crazy night or weekend with my ladies.

Ah no I really want both!!