Would you rather... cut the shower or the bach party?

Bach party.

I'm not one to "party." I've rarely enjoyed such occasions, and I don't like drinking alcohol in excess.

Cut the bach party.

Skip. Not much of party people.

I would probably cut out the Bachelorette party. I hope to be able to have a shower and I would prefer it to be co-ed, so we all get to enjoy a fun party altogether.

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Not as of yet, we are hoping to do it some time in April. Narrowed it down to a few places, so we'll see. Thinking of Miami, New Orleans, Vegas.. maybe Cabo.. Who knows.

Both. I’ve been married before and hate being the center of attention.

Cut the shower! We are 30 so we already have soooo much stuff! I'd rather celebrate with my friends and family! Also to clarify we aren't party people so by celebrate I mean go to a winery with my friends and fiance and hang out.

Bachelorette party. I’m too old for drunken bacchanalia. If I have to have one, I’d like to just have a few close friends and go on a girls weekend to a spa or something like that.

Both. . I feel like you should still be able to have girls nights or guys night even after you're married

Cute the Bach party. I'm not keen on that stuff. We are just going out of town for a couple days to sightsee we close family and friends anyways.

Well if I had it my way, I'd cut the bach party my mom and family members want me to have. My MOH and I are doing a spa day for our "bach party" but my mom, grandma, and aunts want the typical party with male genitalia everything and a stripper...

I REALLY don't want that and they know it makes me uncomfortable, but they are determined and very stubborn. so yeah, definitely cutting the bach party would be my choice!

The bach. Party its over rated these days.

Skip the Bach Party. We are always having a party in our garage with friends and family at least 2 weekends a month.

The shower for sure! I can't wait for the bacherlotte party. I actually did not even have a shower nor do I wish for one.

I honestly think that I could live without both but if I had to choose I would rather cut the shower.

I dont believe I will be having a shower so I would cut that. I would definitely keep my bach party.

I’m cutting the shower, we already live together and aren’t registering for gifts anywhere (just a honeymoon registry), so no point in having a shower! I am hoping to have a Bach party though, would love to do a group shuttle wine tour in our area for our party to all get to know each other!!

Bachelorette party! I'd rather stay at home with my baby!

Probably the bachelorette party. My mom is super excited to throw a shower so I wouldn't want to take that away from her.

Skip the shower