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Would you get married on your birthday? Yea or nay?

Maggie, on March 15, 2019 at 10:05 AM Posted in Community Conversations 0 50
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Birthdays happen every year, but weddings come much more rarely! Would you double-up on your celebrations and get married on your birthday? Why or why not?

Are any of your guests celebrating their bday on your wedding day?

Would you get married on your birthday? Yea or nay? 1

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  • Alexandra
    VIP June 2019
    Alexandra ·
    Not us! We like having as many days to celebrate as possible
  • Allie
    Rockstar August 2019
    Allie ·

    Absolutely not. I love being spoiled on my birthday haha.

  • JustKidding
    VIP April 2018
    JustKidding ·

    God no!

    My birthday is my day.

    Wedding day is our day!

  • Nemo
    VIP August 2018
    Nemo ·

    Absolutely not. We went to a wedding last year that was on the bride's birthday and I would have HATED that if I were her.

  • Madelyn
    Expert August 2019
    Madelyn ·
    It’s a no for me! My birthday and FH’s birthday are already only 3 days apart, so we have plenty going on when birthdays come around to not add one more thing to the mix!
  • Maggie
    Champion October 2025
    Maggie ·
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    Oh man, adding a wedding to that mix would make for quite the tiring week.

  • Tara
    Master May 2020
    Tara ·
    H-E-double hockey 🏒 sticks no!!! I’ve seen couples soooo in love and then eventually divorce. I have every intention of staying forever with my partner, but only the universe knows what will happen. I wouldn’t want my birthday to be a reminder of possible heartbreak. Besides I love being catered to on my birthday 🎁
  • FutureMrsKC
    Master January 2019
    FutureMrsKC ·

    I probably wouldn't get married on my birthday, but we did get married on the best mans birthday!

    I didn't even know it was his birthday until he joked about it a few months before the wedding, my husband never told me! We got married on our anniversary, and the best man made jokes that we threw him the biggest birthday party ever in his speech at dinner!

    We also had the DJ play happy birthday as a joke, and we dedicated it to the best man (and also my grandma who turned 80 a few days before the wedding).

  • Porterpoppin
    VIP March 2019
    Porterpoppin ·

    No. We didn't even want our wedding close to our wedding, it needs its own date, month...hell season lol

  • Kim
    Super September 2019
    Kim ·

    Absolutely not! I already got engaged on my birthday, can't have my wedding on that day too!But we are getting married 6 days before my birthday anyway. LOL

  • Mandy
    VIP May 2019
    Mandy ·
    We're getting married two days after our anniversary and three days before my birthday. I wouldn't get married ON my birthday. I actually said no to the weekends where our family members had birthdays as well.

    A friend of mine got married on her birthday, which was also her husbands birthday. So, they celebrate three things on one day.

  • Lizzy
    Super October 2019
    Lizzy ·
    No, one of the reasons I like our date is it sapces everything out
  • Miryam
    Dedicated September 2019
    Miryam ·

    Im not big on my birthday so I personally would not mind. We are acutally getting married a weekend before my birthday and had talked about doing it on the day of. But decided against it becasue I have always had bad weather on my birthday and I did not want to risk it.

  • Caytlyn
    Champion November 2019
    Caytlyn ·

    Hard pass for me

  • Jazmin
    Devoted January 2020
    Jazmin ·

    I wouldn't get married on my birthday. I love having multiple things to celebrate throughout the year! But it will be my uncle's 50th birthday on our wedding day!

  • Kelly
    Dedicated June 2019
    Kelly ·
    I’m way too much of a birthday brat to share it with my wedding anniversary haha!
  • Amanda
    Master December 2020
    Amanda ·
    Heck no! It's my day haha and if something happened to the marriage then your birthday will forever be sad..
  • Btbride
    Super August 2019
    Btbride ·
    My birthday is Christmas day, soooo... no 😂
  • Miluska
    Savvy May 2020
    Miluska ·
    I was engaged on my 30th birthday and my dinner sort of became a celebration for both. I would not want to get married on my birthday, I felt bad our wedding is exactly a month before my fiance's 30th birthday since we may not be able to travel again after taking 2 weeks off for the honeymoon.
  • Formerbride
    Rockstar June 2019
    Formerbride ·

    We're getting married on my FHs birthday! My birthday is a week and a half later.

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