Master September 2014

Worst Wedding Guests

Staci, on October 10, 2014 at 1:52 PM Posted in Community Conversations 0 54
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Whether the wedding has taken place or not, you probably already know who is going to cause problems! But for me my sister's boyfriend turned out to be the wildcard. They broke up/got back together/broke up/got back together several times before the wedding. Then I finally get to meet him at the rehearsal and realize he is a total scuzz bag.

My BMs were practicing putting my dress on (sister is MOH) and he comes into the hotel room and sits on the couch drinking a beer! While BMs have their hands/heads/etc stuck up my dress and various parts of my body are exposed! SIL had to physically escort him out of the room.

People were coming up to me all night asking me who he was and telling me that he had either given them his business card or inappropriately tried rubbing their backs.

Who was the guest all your other guests were talking about at the wedding? Or who are you most worried about misbehaving?


  • Janeen
    Master January 2015
    Janeen ·

    D: D: D: D:

    My father will likely be my biggest problem.

  • 8815wedding
    VIP August 2015
    8815wedding ·

    I am worried about a cousin (or two or three) who have been known to enjoy open bars a bit too much at weddings and really show off their moves on the dance floor.

    To be fair, though, they'll be the ones embarrassed the next morning, so I guess it shouldn't really bother me.

  • Shelby H.
    VIP October 2014
    Shelby H. ·

    I'm worried my dad is going to show up and make me go Bridezilla on his ass.

  • Jennifer
    Super August 2015
    Jennifer ·

    My sister who is also my MOH. I made a post about her earlier. She is going to make me crazy for sure.

  • Joanne
    Expert March 2015
    Joanne ·

    I'm worried about a cousin who is known for drinking a little too much and trying to start fights. That's why I'm not inviting him and doing everything I can to make sure he doesn't hear about the wedding.

  • Snarky
    Master September 2014
    Snarky ·

    Our Best Man drank of out a handle of Makers Mark during the entire reception and was scolded many times by my DOC/venue rep. He got really drunk and upchucked in the parking lot, they say.

    One of hubby's cousin's was so drunk he kept petting my dad and telling him how beautiful his hair was. God knows what else he did that I didn't hear about.

    One of my friend's tried to make out with me, cried, and "was lost" (aka went off to hookup with another guest) for an hour during the reception.

  • P
    Super November 2014
    Private User ·

    I have family members who do not like each other... they are both coming. hopefully they keep away and there are no issues!

  • Mrs. A & J
    Master December 2014
    Mrs. A & J ·

    I'm worried about:

    FMIL and FFIL. Bitter divorce. Bitter....bitter....bitter. We have to seat them across the room. FFIL will be front row at the ceremony, FMIL will be a few back (FHs decision!!!). I'm alerting security and watching for a brawl.

    FSIL. She ruined my engagement party by telling me I wasn't good enough for FH and she would kick my ass if I hurt him. Yeah....cuz I was planning on hurting him but your threats stopped me. If she says anything on our wedding, my BMS are already prepared

  • ValZtoB
    Master March 2015
    ValZtoB ·

    FH's sister. She is classless and explosive. She thinks she is "gangsta" and starts crap wherever she goes. She also usually has warrants (so proud - not). I have had nightmares about the Coast Guard boarding the yacht to arrest her.

  • AndixLyn
    Master June 2015
    AndixLyn ·

    FMIL, if she even shows. shes flaky and doesnt like me. cus shes a nut job and i tell her often. if she comes,i'm counting on her being a dick,making a scene, grabbing the mic and saying something rude etc. dont even care, everyone knows shes a nut job already. shes the one who doesnt wear shoes.

    my "sister" the gf i have whos family is like my own since age 19, she will totally get drunk, maybe cry hysterically and whine about her own wedding and compare us and how she never feels like she can compete with me.

  • Staci
    Master September 2014
    Staci ·

    Yes the drinking thing is a real problem lol. Hopefully you can all trust your bartenders.

  • C + R
    Master November 2014
    C + R ·

    He was rubbing their backs?! I'm not sure what to even think about that, haha. That's so strange!

  • Koch Bride
    Master September 2014
    Koch Bride ·

    My aunt. First off, she said she was bringing her boyfriend so we payed for the plate. She didn't tell him about the wedding and he didn't get off from work so she put us in the negative. For a gift she gave us a needlepoint but didn't just put it in a bag. No, she couldn't do something normal like that. Instead she moves flowers and other things around from the card table and displays her needlepoint. The next day she asked me for the frame back because she needed it for a craft show.

    Btw, that was her only gift. No card. Nothing. And the needlepoint was weird. It wasn't in our colors and didn't have a theme. My first and middle name in pink and my husband's first and middle name in blue over top of our wedding date. It looked like a birth announcement for twins not a wedding gift.

  • Jennifer
    Super August 2015
    Jennifer ·

    Koch wins for worst gift. That is just so weird.

  • Staci
    Master September 2014
    Staci ·

    Yes @Cristi! He also brushed my hair back to get a better look at my earrings. *shudder*

  • MrsCampbell2B
    Savvy November 2014
    MrsCampbell2B ·

    I can see it now, my mother and grandmother(mother and daughter) will drive me out of my mind... Ugh

  • Ally
    VIP October 2014
    Ally ·

    I have a bunch of people on my dads side that don't get along and i'm not really super worried about it because if they can't be grown ups and behave i WILL say something.

    very worried about FH's parents. you just can't ever please FMIL. i'm more worried about the rehearsal dinner with her though then the wedding. she makes scenes everywhere she goes so i'm very nervous about that.

  • Jess D
    VIP May 2015
    Jess D ·

    We're not inviting people who would cause drama. but we know that always doesnt happen

  • LB
    Master May 2014
    LB ·

    We forewarned our venue that we would support the bartenders if they wanted to cut someone off for having too much to drink. Nobody did.

  • Michy
    VIP June 2015
    Michy ·

    A lot of the people coming to my wedding I have never met (fiance's family) sooooo I am nervous about that! There's a few they say always cause trouble. I'm like... so why are we inviting them?! Duhh... but yeah, apparently I have no say.

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