FH asked me. But only after taking me ring shopping then acting like I was pressuring him. I was LIVID. Told him never to take me ring shopping again (we’d gone about six months prior but I knew he wasn’t ready). He finally broke down and showed me the paperwork for the ring that was out getting sized. He lasted four days with the secret, lol. It made the proposal completely not a surprise but it was still sweet, thoughtful and heartfelt.