We both swiped right on Tinder, but he sent the first message. Something about asking which craft brews were my favorite - because I listed being a Vermont beer snob on “about me”. So I knew he read my profile. He was also polite, articulate, intelligent, and charming. Which led to some decent conversations before we met in person, when sparks flew at our first date at a coffee shop. He made the first move then, to swoop in for a kiss, and it was amazing. 😍
Technically he made the first, he harassed (friendly harassment I may add) for 2 weeks after I started a new job. He was one of the trainers so I got to see him every day for my whole shift. After a few days my friends (I started the job with 4 good friends I had already knew) kept telling me that he was flirting and I kept telling them he wasn’t that he was just being nice. They’re all like yea but he’s EXTRA nice to you lol.
After 2 weeks I did end up sending him a friend request on fb he messaged me first and confirmed that he was interested and was glad I picked up on it.
He made the first move on facebook. We had a lot of mutual friends growing up and I knew of him but didn't know him personally. I blew him off the first time he messaged me but thankfully he was persistent and messaged me again. Otherwise, we wouldn't be here today!
He did! We were friends for several years before dating. We had two classes together at community college so he recognized me and asked me if I wanted to work on the end of semester projects with him. Over the years, we kept in touch and would hang out from time to time. I was in a relationship that was really bad for me. Once I was done crying after I left that guy, I asked him if he wanted to hang out. When we did, he moved in for a kiss.
He added me on social media, and sent me the first message via messenger, I think to confirm that my ex and I had broken up (we all knew each other prior to FH and I getting together). Though I initiated exchanging numbers and going on a date.