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Who made the first move?

Kelly, on February 12, 2019 at 11:05 AM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 87
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Whether it was in person or online, who made the first move in your relationship?

Who made the first move? 1

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  • Shannon
    Expert October 2017
    Shannon ·
    I made the first move. I sent him a message on plenty of fish, he responded and it took off from there.
  • Alexandra
    VIP June 2019
    Alexandra ·
    He did! We were at our HS winter semi-formal, and he asked me to dance

  • Tara
    Master May 2020
    Tara ·
    I made the first move. I closed my eyes and puckered out my lips.
  • Crisa
    Expert January 2020
    Crisa ·
    He made the first move and for a while I was blind to it but eventually realized he liked me.
  • Monica
    Devoted July 2020
    Monica ·
    We both swiped right on Tinder, but he sent the first message. Something about asking which craft brews were my favorite - because I listed being a Vermont beer snob on “about me”. So I knew he read my profile. He was also polite, articulate, intelligent, and charming. Which led to some decent conversations before we met in person, when sparks flew at our first date at a coffee shop. He made the first move then, to swoop in for a kiss, and it was amazing. 😍
  • Saraí
    April 2019
    Saraí ·
    He made the first move, I actually hated him at first and thank God he insisted because I can't imagine my life without this man
  • Carol
    Dedicated May 2020
    Carol ·

    I made the first move. He was very shy

  • Dedicated June 2020
    Technically he made the first, he harassed (friendly harassment I may add) for 2 weeks after I started a new job. He was one of the trainers so I got to see him every day for my whole shift. After a few days my friends (I started the job with 4 good friends I had already knew) kept telling me that he was flirting and I kept telling them he wasn’t that he was just being nice. They’re all like yea but he’s EXTRA nice to you lol.

    After 2 weeks I did end up sending him a friend request on fb he messaged me first and confirmed that he was interested and was glad I picked up on it.
  • Miryam
    Dedicated September 2019
    Miryam ·

    He made the first move on facebook. We had a lot of mutual friends growing up and I knew of him but didn't know him personally. I blew him off the first time he messaged me but thankfully he was persistent and messaged me again. Otherwise, we wouldn't be here today!

  • S
    Devoted May 2019
    Sarah ·
    We met online. I think I messaged him first but he asked me on a date.
  • Alyssa
    Super July 2019
    Alyssa ·
    We both swiped on each other on bumble but I had to send the first message. He's the one who asked me out on our first date though so I feel like it was a team effort.
  • Sam
    Master August 2024
    Sam ·

    I think it was pretty mutual! We met through some mutual friends and we both kind of pursued it from there!

  • Kelly
    Legend October 2022
    Kelly ·
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    Lol!! Love it, I'm sure they caught on to what you wanted!

  • Kelly
    Legend October 2022
    Kelly ·
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    Aww that's amazing!!

  • Abby
    VIP March 2019
    Abby ·
    He did! He sent me a message on Match!
  • Katie
    Just Said Yes May 2019
    Katie ·

    He did! We were friends for several years before dating. We had two classes together at community college so he recognized me and asked me if I wanted to work on the end of semester projects with him. Over the years, we kept in touch and would hang out from time to time. I was in a relationship that was really bad for me. Once I was done crying after I left that guy, I asked him if he wanted to hang out. When we did, he moved in for a kiss.

  • Danielle K
    VIP June 2019
    Danielle K ·

    Him for sure. he always had a big crush lol

  • Maggie
    Champion October 2025
    Maggie ·

    Making me dig through my phone so I can make sure I get this right...I'm going to say them.

  • Maureen
    Dedicated March 2020
    Maureen ·

    He added me on social media, and sent me the first message via messenger, I think to confirm that my ex and I had broken up (we all knew each other prior to FH and I getting together). Though I initiated exchanging numbers and going on a date.

  • Peggy
    Master November 2019
    Peggy ·
    He talked to me first online but we didn’t go out, then later I got back on there and sent him a message

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