Who is giving a toast?

I really don't want any but, again, my mother is insistent (and she's paying for a large chunk of this wedding).

MOH/BM, his parents, and my parents. In that order, as units.

My moh his bm and then our next bm and gm. Also bc my grandpa (who is walking me down the aisle) is uncomfortable giving speeches and bc we are paying for the whole wedding we will be opening toasts by thanking everyone for coming!

We're having our MOH, best man, my dad, and his mom make toasts. My grandma will be making a toast the night before at our welcome dinner!

We havent decided yet. But we do know that we (I) will be giving a Wassail toast to the health of our guests.

Maid of honor and best man. If our parents want to give a toast then they are also more than welcome

I’m thinking moh, best man, dad, and groom

Two of our Gm ( no best man) & two of our Bm's (no maid of honor) did it and they were fantastic!

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That sounds lovely! I bet they are so excited to toast to the newlyweds!

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I think that is a really lovely idea! I bet your guests will really appreciate you thanking them and hearing from you on this incredible milestone!

Have not completely thought about this but I believe my Dad, FFIL, MOH, and best man!

I’m opening it up to whoever wants to, but I still want the DJ to know so I’m asking people if they want to. Most of my bridesmaids don’t. My MOH is. Best man probably will. My grandpa is doing one and that’s it so far

As far as I know, our matron of honor and best man will be the only ones toasting. I suppose I should look up who all gives toasts at weddings, because honestly I'm not too sure.

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Hi Danielle! It's usually up to you and your future spouse as to who gives speeches and their comfortability with public speaking! There is no go-to list of speakers, it's all a matter of personal taste!

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Thank you. I wasn't sure. I've been learning a lot of things I didn't know through this entire wedding planning process.

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There is so much to learn about weddings along the way! I bet you have become a pro by now!

That's a good question! I think FBIL/BM wants to give one, FH keeps telling him to read his dissertation lol. My MOH said she doesnt want to but will if the best man is. I told her she really doesnt have to. I totally understand hating public speaking!
I'm sure my dad will say a few words too.

After our Entrance to the Reception, My Dad will stand with my Mom and give a toast. Then while we are eating, My MOH/BM will give speaches

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That sounds amazing! I'm glad you have it all planned out and I bet they are so excited to toast to the newlyweds!

We don't really know, to be honest. I guess whoever wants to say anything in the moment, they'll be free to, if they want. If anything, FH and I will say a small speech and thank our guests for coming!

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It might be nice to have some unexpected toasts at your wedding! I bet many guests will want to toast to the newlyweds!