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Who has been your biggest planning ally?

Rebecca, on November 6, 2018 at 11:05 AM Posted in Planning 0 54

We want to know who's who in your I do crew! Who’s been there for all your late night contemplations over matching colors and plus ones? Who has had your back whenever things didn’t go as planned? Who has been your biggest planning ally?

Who has been your biggest planning ally? 1

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Latest activity by Meghan, on June 14, 2019 at 3:57 PM
  • FutureMrsKC
    Master January 2019
    FutureMrsKC ·
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    My mom for sure! My friends/bridesmaids haven't been too interested or asked to help or anything so my mom has been my go-to when something happens or I need advice!

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  • latasha
    VIP September 2019
    latasha ·
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    My oldest sister and I plan events so she has been my main but my other sister and mom also weigh in heavily. FH has also given a lot of commentary lol
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  • Alyssa
    Super July 2019
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    My FH. Him and I talk about all the planning and m make the decisions together. He generally agrees with whatever I want though!
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  • Arkilia
    Super November 2021
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    My fiance first we have pretty much done everything together, my mom and sister next.
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  • JustKidding
    VIP April 2018
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    My husband. As it should be. Planning the wedding was our job. We tackled it together. He went to bridal shows with me, he talked about vendors, we went to meetings together. It was great.

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  • Abby
    VIP March 2019
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    My FH first and foremost. He helps me with whatever I need help with and puts up with my rambling about other wedding stuff he doesn't care as much about!

    Then my mom and specifically one of my bridesmaids has been very supportive. The others not as much and that's fine.
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  • Pirate & 60s Bride
    Legend March 2017
    Pirate & 60s Bride ·
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    For me too. My hubby was my 50/50 partner in creativity! It was great that he could understand budget woes and flaky vendors because he was as involved as I was. We created the wedding of our dreams with no criticism from any peanut gallery—our day was so us!
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  • J
    Just Said Yes April 2020
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    My biggest planning ally has actually been my fiance. He keeps me concentrated on things and motivates me to get it done.
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  • Kelsey Brielle
    Super June 2022
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    My FH first, my mom and my sisters. I have tons of planning left but they have been there from the start.

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  • Nemo
    Master August 2018
    Nemo ·
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    My MOH's mom actually! She and I are very close and she was my go-to for anything wedding related. H was great with the logistical things, but when I needed an opinion on the color of my bridesmaid dresses or decor things, my friend's mom was definitely my person.

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  • Across The Stars
    Devoted October 2019
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    My FH! He's been involved since the beginning!
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  • Rebecca
    Master October 2025
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    That warms my heart! Do you two like to divide wedding tasks and conquer or go through them together?

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  • A
    Dedicated May 2019
    Autumn ·
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    WeddingWire. Lol But my FH, Man of honor, and mother have been there throughout the tastings and dress showing and everything. Even my little brother has been there for opinions on things.
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  • J
    Just Said Yes April 2020
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    We go through them together to make sure it isn't just one person's vision being represented. We like the same things thankfully, it's just the really small details that we but heads on. Like, I would want a caterer at the reception in order to switch out empty containers for full ones while he wants the caterer to drop off everything and have it all set out. Pretty minor things mostly.
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  • IslandBride88
    Devoted November 2018
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    My MOH all the way! Shes as type A as I am and knows how to help me not over stress.

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    Just Said Yes December 2018
    Cerita ·
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    My biggest ally, mom. She's the one has been there every step of way with me, taking care of our daughter when we need her....she's just been great throughout the thing
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  • Latonya
    Devoted April 2021
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    Me, myself, and i. Oh well i guess my FH as well. lol

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  • Gabrielle
    Dedicated October 2019
    Gabrielle ·
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    My mom and MOHs. They're my in-town crowd and they don't push me with questions but remain at the ready when I have an ask Smiley heart

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  • Bianca
    Super August 2019
    Bianca ·
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    No one? I’m so independent that I just do this all myself.
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  • Jennifer
    Super December 2019
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    My mom so far. My fiancee takes her Vet Med Boards 3 weeks from today so has been very focused on studying and prepping to be Dr since last June (and before that too but thats when studying got REALLY intense) so hasnt had time to do much wedding stuff yet. But once Boards are over and passed and the last mandatory rotations for graduation are over and it is just electives (in February) she will be all in. She has given input into all the big stuff but mom has been the one helping with the details (and gifting us with some of the pieces we really wanted) and the one with me at all my dress fittings - fiancee wont see it until that day!

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