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Rebecca
Master October 2025

Who has been your biggest planning ally?

Rebecca, on November 6, 2018 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Planning 54

We want to know who's who in your I do crew! Who’s been there for all your late night contemplations over matching colors and plus ones? Who has had your back whenever things didn’t go as planned? Who has been your biggest planning ally? Photo from Catherine and George's Wedding in San Clemente,...

We want to know who's who in your I do crew! Who’s been there for all your late night contemplations over matching colors and plus ones? Who has had your back whenever things didn’t go as planned? Who has been your biggest planning ally?

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Photo from Catherine and George's Wedding in San Clemente, California

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  • Stephanie
    Devoted October 2019
    Stephanie ·
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    I’d probably have to say FMIL..she’s been waiting for this day to come way before me and FH we’re ready for it lol
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  • Mrs. S
    Master November 2019
    Mrs. S ·
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    My fiancé mainly but my moh has been great to bounce ideas off of
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  • Mrs. Dujmovic
    Devoted July 2019
    Mrs. Dujmovic ·
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    My husband has been so great throughout this whole planning process! He actually wants to plan with me and is very involved.

    Our moms are also really involved, as well as my maid of honorSmiley heart

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  • Jennifer
    Master September 2018
    Jennifer ·
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    My SIL was the biggest help besides my H.

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  • Mrs. H
    Master September 2019
    Mrs. H ·
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    My Mother Smiley heart

    As much as she's driven me bonkers with planning, she's also been my biggest ally/support.

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  • Tpatb
    Master August 2019
    Tpatb ·
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    My moh..since I’ve been engaged we’ve gotten closer & I’ve been going to her for a lot more than weddings things lol she’s the one all in
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  • Brianna
    Dedicated September 2020
    Brianna ·
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    Honestly, I've been doing a lot of the planning by myself. My FH has been a huge help with the big stuff (venue, photographer/videographer, catering, etc). As for help with the little details, if I could pick one person, it would be my best friend and maid of honor. We recently went to a wedding show and her input was a breath of fresh air!

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  • E
    Dedicated June 2019
    Erica ·
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    I've been doing mostly everything by myself but my FMIL has been there the most out of anyone for me when it's come to planning! She might be more excited than I am but I'm glad!

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  • Rebecca
    Master October 2025
    Rebecca ·
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    That's a great idea! And it's also a great way to ensure it doesn't feel like all the planning is being done by one person. I feel like sometimes the small things are the hardest decisions!

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  • Rebecca
    Master October 2025
    Rebecca ·
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    That's awesome!! I'd love to be able to plan with my FMIL someday Smiley smile

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  • Rebecca
    Master October 2025
    Rebecca ·
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    I totally relate to this! I feel like my mom is always my biggest planning ally (and the first person to drive me nuts - in good way!) lol

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  • J
    Just Said Yes May 2019
    Jodi ·
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    My sister which is also my maid of honor
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  • Erika
    Expert April 2019
    Erika ·
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    My mom and my sister!

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  • Jen
    VIP July 2018
    Jen ·
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    My now husband, my parents and my best friend!

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  • Christina
    Just Said Yes September 2019
    Christina ·
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    My fiance, of course. Who else? He loves looking at invitation ideas with me and has been part of every decision and look from the flowers, the rings, down to helping me word our Save the Dates. 😍
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  • SoonToBeSyring
    Savvy May 2019
    SoonToBeSyring ·
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    My FH and I honestly have done most of the planning and I'm not too worried about it! My mom is the other person's opinion I respect the most so I ask her thoughts on things but still ultimately decide on what's best for my FH and I's intentions. I do need to learn to ask for help with planning though...it's getting overwhelming being 6 months out now!

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  • Danielle
    Master June 2019
    Danielle ·
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    My matron of honor, mom, and future MIL. They are my go to for bouncing off ideas and sharing inspiration and opinions. I attempt to chat it up with the fiance', but he really doesn't seem too interested, lol. He expresses a few opinions on what he wants, which I honor because it is his day too, but other than that it's the ladies closest to me that I am primarily planning with.

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  • Emily
    Dedicated November 2019
    Emily ·
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    My MOH (Sister) though I had a lot of it planned out before we ever got engaged haha

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  • Laura
    Master October 2019
    Laura ·
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    Sadly no one. My mom, grandma, and best friend have all passed away. It's pretty much going to be all me

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  • Alyrae
    Super February 2020
    Alyrae ·
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    My maid of honor hope has been a huge help she has been awesome and my mother has been a huge help they both helped me pretty equally
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