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Lynnie
WeddingWire Administrator October 2016

Who did most of the wedding planning?

Lynnie, on May 28, 2019 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Family and Relationships 344

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Here's a question that really counts! Smiley winking Who did most of the wedding planning? You or your fiancé(e)?


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  • Jenny
    Beginner April 2020
    Jenny ·
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    Me! My FH says “yeah that looks great!” And smiles. 🙄
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  • K
    Savvy October 2019
    Karen ·
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    I did he is more of a go with the flow type.
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  • Chelsie
    Devoted May 2020
    Chelsie ·
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    Its all me. Though i do ask him what he thinks or if he has an idea of what he wants. But he usually comes back with....i dont know...what do you think.

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  • Katie
    Savvy September 2019
    Katie ·
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    Of course I did all of the planning, it's to be expected as the bride
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  • Amber
    Master February 2020
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    Me lol. FH is not a fan of wedding planning, I try to keep the wedding talk to a minimum because I know it stresses him out. I only ask him yes or no questions to make sure he likes something because he really just wants whatever I want, but he knows I want his approval on things Smiley xd

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  • Jenn
    Dedicated March 2021
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    I organize all the important info and documents for the wedding, but we look and go through everything together. We live in Las Vegas and we are doing a destination wedding in Hawaii. Whenever we talk to our wedding coordinator on the phone, my fiancé and I will both be by the phone so that we can decide and plan things together 🤗
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  • Katie
    Savvy September 2019
    Katie ·
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    Hahaha sounds familiar!
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  • L
    Beginner June 2020
    Laura ·
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    Definitely me
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  • Philippe's & Racheal
    Dedicated August 2020
    Philippe's & Racheal ·
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    Me. I only asked my FH input when it comes to things like his family and stuff for him. But all me
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  • Megan
    Expert October 2019
    Megan ·
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    I can honestly say we had a pretty steady collaboration and compromises. He wanted a big party, I wanted to elope. We agreed on a medium sized party with close family and friends (for our families, that equaled out to 100 people that we are close with). Decorations were suggested to us by our decorator (a family friend of his who gifts her services as a wedding gift) and we agreed on things we liked and didn't like. Because I'm the stay at home parent, I did most of the research but we agreed on our vendors. The only input we didn't have on each other was the attire. He had no input on my dress/shoes/jewelry and I had relatively no say on his tux (minus the tie and pocket square color because I had the swatch).

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  • Emily
    Beginner October 2020
    Emily ·
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    I’m doing most of the wedding planning and it’s stressful lol
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  • Briana
    Beginner September 2021
    Briana ·
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    Definitely me
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  • Katie
    Savvy March 2020
    Katie ·
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    I’ve got to brag on my fiancé. He is incredible when it comes to wedding planning, so honestly both of us have done our equal share!
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  • Chelsey
    Beginner October 2019
    Chelsey ·
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    Definitely me. I'll ask his opinion on different things and he'll tell me what he wants but he won't just give his opinion without me asking.

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  • Jessica
    Expert February 2020
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    Me! He is still learning everything that goes into wedding planning.

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  • Carline
    Savvy July 2020
    Carline ·
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    We are both equally involved in the wedding planning

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  • Christie
    Savvy June 2023
    Christie ·
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    We are both planning it equally for our 5 year anniversary
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  • Brianna
    Beginner September 2022
    Brianna ·
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    Honestly, he's been very helpful and has had some wonderful ideas. Every decision has been made together, on every part of our wedding. I love how involved he is and that he is just as excited as I am about this.
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  • Squeezy Bean
    Devoted June 2023
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    Me so far. But as he's usually reluctant to make decisions, I reckon it will come down to me selecting 2-3 options then asking him to make the final decision.
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  • Paulette
    Expert April 2021
    Paulette ·
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    I am. He picked the colors, the place, the date, the cake flavors, and some of the decor. I'm putting it all together.

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