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Lynnie
WeddingWire Administrator October 2016

Who did most of the wedding planning?

Lynnie, on May 28, 2019 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Family and Relationships 344

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  • N
    Beginner October 2019
    Niqkee ·
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    Me he helped with a few things.
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  • Alyssa
    Super July 2019
    Alyssa ·
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    I did. I'm much more organized so I find planing easy.
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  • Jeneane
    Just Said Yes September 2019
    Jeneane ·
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    I’m a certified wedding planner. I did most of the work, but he had a lot of say in what he would like to have. It’s my first wedding and his second. He wants to be involved, and I love that!
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  • Kayte
    Dedicated October 2019
    Kayte ·
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    I’m doing 99.9% of the planning, luckily my mom & sister (MOH) are helping a lot!
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  • Tracye
    Beginner October 2019
    Tracye ·
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    Definitely me, but surprisingly he does have quite a bit of input. Team work makes the dream work🙌🏽
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  • Christine
    Dedicated September 2019
    Christine ·
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    I'm definitely the planner but he has SO much input. HE chose our first dance song and HE is the one who wants to get married with his toes in the sand. Hence his nickname, "Princess." I honestly couldn't care less. Oh, and our color, Cobalt - is his favorite. He's definitely more high maintenance than I am.

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  • C
    Just Said Yes September 2019
    Chelsea ·
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    I guess me? In all honesty we haven’t planned much of anything, mostly because I want his opinion and he doesn’t worry about the small details like me
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  • Catie
    Beginner September 2022
    Catie ·
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    Meeee I'm a planner where as she could just show up and be totally happy!
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  • Kendra
    Devoted September 2019
    Kendra ·
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    I have! 🙋‍♀️ That’s okay with me, our wedding is small and simple. He did help with picking out the caterer and what food we would be serving and has helped with picking out the music.
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  • Tya
    Beginner November 2019
    Tya ·
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    It has been primarily me, but he has added his input and I've included him in each decision.
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  • Shara
    Beginner February 2020
    Shara ·
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    Me of course
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  • Katie
    VIP November 2019
    Katie ·
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    I think it was a good combination of both of us
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  • Adriana
    Just Said Yes August 2019
    Adriana ·
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    We did everything together
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  • Elizabeth
    Expert September 2019
    Elizabeth ·
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    Definitely me. I ask my fiance for opinions and he says to do what makes me happy.

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  • Jalyn
    Dedicated August 2019
    Jalyn ·
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    Our moms for sure. lol I did a lot of planning as far as what I want aesthetically and what venue and vendors but our moms and my dad are paying so my mom has handled a lot of the communications with the vendors I chose. I just graduated college and we were planning a bit while i was there so i didn't have much time. I also just started a new job so I was handling that as well. I have a lot of DIY things i want to do so my weekends from here on out are dedicated to that.

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  • Jennifer
    Super December 2019
    Jennifer ·
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    Me all the way. They told me I could do whatever I wanted as long as they got to plan the Honeymoon. I thought that was a fair trade, since we had agreed on where to go and they have been there before and know the secrets where I have not.

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  • Katie
    Dedicated May 2020
    Katie ·
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    We haven’t gotten married yet but as of right now I am doing most of the planning. I ask him for input and his opinions but he just wants what I want to make me happy.
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  • Vickie
    Savvy July 2020
    Vickie ·
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    Me. I talk ideas and options and all with him for his input. But I'm definitely the planner

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  • J
    Beginner October 2020
    Jyllian ·
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    I did most of the wedding planning. He's doing the honeymoon planning.
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  • Kalli
    Savvy October 2020
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    I will be surprised if he actually remembers what day it when it comes because I've done literally everything. Its probably better that way though lol
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