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Here's a question that really counts! Who did most of the wedding planning? You or your fiancé(e)?
Me, definitely me. I’m on wedding wire every day and I’m constantly telling him what we need to do. I want everything planned out so that we know how much we are spending. So, even though we are just over a year out, I plan.
We're both planning it together I've done a bit more planning: digging and looking for vendors and then we decide together. It is a team effort
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Alllllllll me. He doesn't want anything to do with it because he doesn't know which decisions will make me happy and I'm really the only reason he broke down and agreed we could finally have our wedding
My husband was very good about sharing planning responsibilities. He toured venues alone, took care of all things relating to the groomsmen and welcome/rehearsal dinner, and worked with me on choosing our menu and music.
Definitely me! But I'm also the super organized, mildly OCD planner one in the relationship and actually have enjoyed the planning process a lot! He had opinions, and would have input when I asked, but I definitely did all of the leg work!
I've tried sharing the decision making, I don't mind getting it done, but I have tried every time to get his input, but he is leaving 90% up to me. He doesn't seem to understand that I'm not like most brides that we know and I don't care about most of this...I have preferences, but if those don't work out, fine. Do something else. I'm not picky, and my only "requirement" is that he shows up. On time xD