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Who did most of the wedding planning?

Lynnie, on May 28, 2019 at 11:05 AM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 337
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Here's a question that really counts! Smiley winking Who did most of the wedding planning? You or your fiancé(e)?


Who did most of the wedding planning? 1

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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn Online ·
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    Definitely me. I've asked FW for opinions on everything, but she doesn't care about the little details nearly as much as I do.

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  • Madelyn
    Expert August 2019
    Madelyn ·
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    Me 🙋🏼‍♀️ when I need FH’s input I basically just give him choices of things I’ve already looked at and then he chooses. Or I’ve asked what wedding related things are important to him and he’s in charge of those.
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  • Fmv
    Super October 2020
    Fmv ·
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    Definitely me. Were still more then a year away from our wedding..so i think starting next year he will become more interested in planning
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  • Future Mrs. K
    VIP June 2019
    Future Mrs. K ·
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    Definitely me. FH helped out whenever I asked and was super involved in the areas that matter most to him, but I'm a planner and super type-a so he let me take the lead in other areas that weren't important to him.

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  • Formerbride
    VIP June 2019
    Formerbride ·
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    Me🙋‍♀️. I talk to FH about it and he has given his opinion here and there.
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  • Heather
    Expert April 2020
    Heather ·
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    I would say I'm doing more of the research and actually getting things done/booked. He has A LOT of opinions though, which is making planning difficult since I have been giving into what he wants. He's going to have to learn to make compromises from here on out though since it's our wedding, not just his.

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  • Ginsteeca
    Expert June 2019
    Ginsteeca ·
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    I did about 60% of it. He's given me input and has been there with every vendor meeting except one. The only thing I chose myself entirely were the flowers. I've been the one in charge of keeping up the business side of wedding planning and staying organized.

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  • Brianna N
    Super October 2019
    Brianna N ·
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    Definitely me! He will give input if I ask, but overall he is just happy to let me take charge!

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  • Paula
    Beginner November 2019
    Paula ·
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    Although he has helped tremendously, I have done the most planning
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  • Allie
    Master August 2019
    Allie ·
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    Me. Although we definitely wouldn't even be having a wedding if it weren't for FH's encouragement to get me through the process.

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  • Danica
    Dedicated October 2019
    Danica ·
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    I'm the one that gets the ball rolling on everything because he is bad about procrastinating. But we've decided on everything together.
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  • Kelsey
    VIP September 2020
    Kelsey ·
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    For sure me. I do ask his opinions on vendors and what he thinks after we meet with one. But we have been in agreement for which ones we hire. But the small things I have been doing by myself or with my mom.

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  • Mrs. Flowers 🌺
    Savvy May 2020
    Mrs. Flowers 🌺 ·
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    Me, myself, and I. He's only contributed one song to the entire wedding
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  • Mrs. H
    Master September 2019
    Mrs. H ·
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    Me, although FH has given input/advice when solicited/needed

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  • Shaniece
    Just Said Yes November 2020
    Shaniece ·
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    Me me me meeee hahaha
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  • Jennifer
    Super October 2020
    Jennifer ·
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    I'm doing most of the wedding planning. 99% of the time when I ask for his input, his response is "whatever you want."
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  • Jasmine
    Rockstar February 2021
    Jasmine ·
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    Planning in general really isn't FH's thing. This is definitely me!

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  • Jessica
    VIP September 2020
    Jessica ·
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    I usually feel like I’m trying to pull teeth getting his input, his go to response is “whatever makes you happy” and when in frustrated it’s “that’s why I said we should just go down to the courthouse.”
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  • Ashley
    Beginner October 2020
    Ashley ·
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    We are currently in search of a venue and he's not helping at all. When I try to talk to him, he just nods.
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  • Kristin
    Super November 2019
    Kristin ·
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    All me, I couldn't even get FH to pick out his own friggin shoes!


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