Maggie
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Who defined the relationship? You or your fiancé(e)?

Maggie, on November 13, 2018 at 11:05 AM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 248
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In every relationship, there’s a time when you’re a little unsure of what you two are to each other. Which one of you cleared that up? Who defined your relationship? You or your fiancé(e)?

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  • Vanessasaurus
    VIP June 2019
    Vanessasaurus ·
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    He introduced me to his mom as his “kinda girlfriend” the summer we got together. Basically I was like wtf does that mean and we cleared it up following that.
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  • JustKidding
    VIP April 2018
    JustKidding ·
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    I asked what we were and he said I was his girlfriend.

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  • Stephanie
    Super August 2019
    Stephanie ·
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    He did!! He was pretty unsure of our relationship in the beginning, and so I hung back and let him make the actual “relationship or not” decision. He introduced me to his parents first as his girlfriend and then it was decided!
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  • Lafuturaseñora
    Devoted April 2019
    Lafuturaseñora ·
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    After five months of casually hanging out together and an "accidental" drunken kiss, the night after he asked me to be his girlfriend.

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  • MrsV1027
    Master October 2018
    MrsV1027 ·
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    He asked me to be his gf pretty early on. Like the night after the 2nd date I think lol

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  • Kenisha
    Champion June 2019
    Kenisha ·
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    He asked me to be his girlfriend really early on.
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  • Maggie
    Champion October 2025
    Maggie ·
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    Aww, that's cute!! What's the story behind the "accidental" kiss, if you don't mind me asking?

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  • Danielle K
    VIP June 2019
    Danielle K ·
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    He kept trying but I wanted to keep it casual. eventually I realized we were spending all of our time together and I didn't want it any differently so I sneakily added on Facebook that we were in a relationship, he got the notification and just looked at me all starry eyed lol it was really cute!

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  • Maggie
    Champion October 2025
    Maggie ·
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    LOL, that's one way to start that conversation! It obviously turned out well!!

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  • Maggie
    Champion October 2025
    Maggie ·
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    Ahh, that's so adorable!! My heart!!! Smiley love

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  • Jennifer
    Master September 2018
    Jennifer ·
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    My H did he is the one who asked if were making it official.

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  • Abby
    VIP March 2019
    Abby ·
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    Neither of us ever really "asked" the other to be boyfriend/girlfriend. On our 5th date he kissed me for the first time as we were saying bye and when I hung out with him a couple days later he referred to himself as my boyfriend and I just rolled with it!
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  • Mcskipper
    Master July 2018
    Mcskipper ·
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    Well, I’m the one who invited him to come on my family vacation with me, but he’s the one who responded by asking “does that make you my girlfriend?” 🤣. So maybe a toss up haha
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  • Alyssa
    Super July 2019
    Alyssa ·
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    I think it was a bit of a combo. I started the conversation but he was the one to firmly say I'm exclusive with you.
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  • Audrey
    Just Said Yes October 2019
    Audrey ·
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    After a few months of us talking and being friends, he asked my dad if he could have his permission to ask me to be his girlfriend. The next day, we were official. But, we were already acting like a couple.
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  • Alyssa
    Master December 2019
    Alyssa ·
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    We both defined what we want and needed. We’re 13 years together in a couple of weeks
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  • K
    Beginner July 2019
    Keturah ·
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    He asked me to be his girlfriend and I said you don’t want me as your girlfriend. Even though I loved him and there was something about him... I knew I was scared because we were best friends and I didn’t ever want to loose him as a friend if our relationship didn’t make it. So I told him to give me 5 days to pray and really think about it and he said he would call me on an exact date and time and he did and he told me he prayed for me and he asked God to make me his. Needless to say I said yes and 6 months later he asked me to marry him.
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  • Laura
    Rockstar October 2019
    Laura ·
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    I knew it pretty early on, but he was the one who called me his girlfriend one day, just on the phone ordering pizza....

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  • S
    Savvy November 2020
    Sarah ·
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    I definitely asked him for sure! If u ask him he would say he asked 😂🤣😂
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  • Johanna
    Dedicated December 2018
    Johanna ·
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    Definitely him. He asked me to be his girlfriend after two months of casual (but exclusive) dating. I argue our dating anniversary should be in April, but June was when it was first said out loud.
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