What's got you stressed

Flower arrangements! I hate flower arrangements and our wedding is in November so I'm trying to incorporate as many pinecones and what not as I can. Me and my bridal party aren't even caring bouquets, we will have lanterns with some tool and flowers because that's how much I hate floral arrangements.

However our tables are rectangle so I feel like I need to balance the table with small floral pieces. My main center piece will be some sort of lit lantern/or hurricane with lights and pinecones. Bur 1/4 of the way down on each side I feel like I need something else to spread out the table. I've asked my stepmom a bunch to help me with these arrangements but she recently lost her sister so she's not really into it, and I don't want to push her but I'm less then five months from our wedding and still have not decided on floral arrangements. I'm doing it on my own but I hate to waste the money on something I'm going to dread doing anyways, but don't want to hire someone.

Our caterer! They take forever to respond and everyone there does every wedding so there's like 10 people who could respond to an email, they never do thought. It takes about a month for someone to respond to me. So stressful.

I need to email my photographer and confirm engagement photos.
Then this weekend:
I need to install our new microwave.
Find outfit for funeral.
Attend funeral.
Attend wedding reception.
Find my outfit for engagement photos.
Take fiance shopping for clothes.
Touch up paint in our bedroom and hallway.
Take down painters tape.

It doesn't have me stressed per say but it doesn't exactly have me not stressed either ahah. We are having a candy buffet table. Our venue is allowing us the night before to bring our stuff like decor and store it in their closet. However they said not to bring the candy til 4p on day of wedding because if it's stores in their closet it'll melt since the temperature in there is warm. My ceremony is at 5 and the venue is close to the ceremony church but it's kind of annoying still. I can just have someone drop it off but it was just a little thing that was unplanned

I’m stressed because my Reception venue burned down and I need to start completely over....for my December wedding. Save the dates already went out

My venue. It is all inclusive but the owner is a space cadet. She always takes too long to respond. I've been waiting for her to get me a price on an upgraded menu for 2 months now. Luckily my mom took over and is now calling her to try to get these few details sorted out because I am so over it!

Not a ton as we are only two weeks out so pretty much everything is done and everything is paid for already. I ordered escort cards last week so I am a little stressed waiting for them to come in but they said they would be here by June 10th the latest so I know they will be here on time.

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My Gosh! I am so so very sorry! I hope you find the perfect new venue and everything just falls into place. Good luck and again I am so sorry!

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Good luck and congratulations!

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Gosh that's frustrating! But thank god for moms!

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That's a lot going on, on top of planning your wedding. I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you are able to accomplish everything you need to with ease.

Our biggest stress has been actually dealing with buying a house. But wedding related I think the guest list was by far the biggest stressed! Now I think it’ll be all the little details! Overall I’m enjoying it all and just anxious!

My biggest wedding issue is communication with my coordinator. I'm getting married on the 14th. 2 days ago she sent me a rough draft of our invoice. I sent my count to her a week before that and this invoice doesn't even reflect the count. I owned a business for a few years, now work in fiscal for my county and my FH is a CPA... I have never heard of a rough draft of an invoice. I'm so freaking (not the word I'd use) tired of communicating with this person. She complicates everything. I just want to pay!!!!!!

Everything is moving smoothly, all is going OK. But I've got a bunch of DIYS and I don't know if I should start now or wait a little closer to the date.
Apart from that, family drama and possibly having a brother of FH's might be going to prison and ugh...

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Oh my goodness, you've got a lot going on, girl!

View Quoted Comment Yeah just with the family drama I'm just fed up to be honest. Although FH says is none of his business and that it is his brother's fault. The problem is he went to jail last year as well, for domestic violence and immigration came for him. We all pitched in to get him out. Our lives savings went to that! And now this azzbutt is doing the same thing again to another girl.... If he goes to jail again he is definitely being deported. Leaves me with one free invitie and one person less to worry about for the day but goodness too much!!!

The rehearsal dinner!

My groom, his best man and my maid of honor still don't have their attire together... I'll feel so much better once they do!

Money money money. I’ve always dreamed of a huge wedding with lots of real flowers and plenty of other expensive details. Explaining to FH that no real flowers other than my bouquet and his boutonnières and very small guest list is a huge compromise for me. Shopping around and finding good deals has been a must for me

A florist. Also weddings bring out the best and worst of people so now it’s about people.