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Kelly
Legend October 2022

What was your first wedding planning decision?

Kelly, on January 9, 2019 at 3:05 PM

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What was the very first planning decision you made? Was it deciding on the budget? Finding the perfect venue? Creating the guest list? What was first? For more on planning basics, check out these discussions: What are your venue “must haves” ? and What are your wedding colors ?

What was the very first planning decision you made? Was it deciding on the budget? Finding the perfect venue? Creating the guest list? What was first?


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For more on planning basics, check out these discussions: What are your venue “must haves” ? and What are your wedding colors ?

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  • Laura
    Master October 2019
    Laura ·
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    For us it was deciding on having a fall wedding. We considered having it last summer, but finances weren't there and we bother prefer fall anyway

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  • OnCloudRawls
    VIP June 2019
    OnCloudRawls ·
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    FYI- I love that gif! It's from the show, Hart of Dixie! I loved that show!!!!

    Our first wedding planning decision was agreeing on our wedding date. That day is special to us since it's our anniversary.

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  • Kristen328
    Super September 2018
    Kristen328 ·
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    I think the first decision we made was a rough guest list
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  • Mrs.
    Super May 2019
    Mrs. ·
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    Our (two) dates. We wanted to get legally married on our 8 year anniversary, but it’s a Tuesday so it’s going to just be us two and our witnesses. And then we chose our formal wedding date right after that.
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  • Katie
    VIP November 2019
    Katie ·
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    Ours was the venue. We made that decision a week later
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  • L
    Expert June 2019
    Lori ·
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    The venue was first, then the date.
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  • Amber
    Devoted July 2019
    Amber ·
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    That we love breakfast and want a brunch wedding
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  • R
    Savvy May 2018
    Reneshia ·
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    Date and budget
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  • Kelly
    Legend October 2022
    Kelly ·
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    That's awesome! Did you use a website like Vistaprint to make them?

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  • Kelly
    Legend October 2022
    Kelly ·
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    Awww that's so awesome! How many guests are you all inviting?

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  • Kelly
    Legend October 2022
    Kelly ·
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    Love it! Where are you all headed for you destination wedding?

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  • nyfamilyfarm@gmail.com
    Savvy July 2020
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    Ditto lol.

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  • Augusta
    Dedicated February 2020
    Augusta ·
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    I made them. I bought the floral art from Etsy for $4 then created the invites on my computer and had them printed locally for 40 cents each

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  • Mikayla
    Dedicated May 2021
    Mikayla ·
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    Our first decision was our reception and ceremony venues, we knew we would have to book fast in order to get the places we wanted on our date.

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  • Ashley
    Dedicated June 2019
    Ashley ·
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    The first decisions we made was the date and the colors we wanted to use!

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  • Malki
    Devoted November 2019
    Malki ·
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    Our first decision was actually whether to have a wedding with guests or just elope the two of us 😂 I’m glad we decided on a wedding
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  • Tamara
    VIP August 2019
    Tamara ·
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    It was the number of guests and budget for us. Everything else flowed from there.

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  • chrysalisjade
    Dedicated July 2019
    chrysalisjade ·
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    Our first decision was the wedding budget. We decided what we could both realistically save up and afford, and then started looking at vendors accordingly.

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  • Rebecca
    Master August 2019
    Rebecca ·
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    Officially?

    The ceremony venue. Fiance is Catholic and his home parish is nearby, so he made it clear loooooooooooong before we were engaged that he wanted to get married there.


    Since we've been engaged?


    ...My dress. Found it at a pop-up sale for $200 a week after we got engaged. Couldn't pass up the savings.


    We still don't have a budget or a venue or even a very firm date (other than a target).


    I have never in my life done things the expected way.

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  • B
    Master April 2019
    Brittany ·
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    Our venue was the first big decision. Venue and date.

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