What did your men do for their Bachelor party

Nicole: Strippers are just doing their jobs--if they're at the party, they're just there to get paid. Most of them have partners (often spouses) of their own. They don't have any interest in a non-professional relationship with the guys at the bachelor party.



A friend of ours is going to take FH out to the bars when I'm having my bachelorette dinner and pajama party. I made him promise no strippers, not because I care, but because I know they would make FH uncomfortable. (He's said a few times that he MIGHT be willing to go to a strip club with me, but not under any other circumstances.)

I agree with Cabell . they just want to get paid. Iv'e been to a stripp club with my FH. They dont kiss or anything unless there are disscussions about beeing paid for "extra services" but most of them do have a partner and wont cross that line. In our state they are just topless bars and most clubs you cant touch the women but they can touch you...I had one grab my boob :/

My FH really doesnt like getting lap dances from the strippers. He doesnt want to make me feel bad and he would rather have a lap dance from me i even offered to buy him a lap danve and he said no lol. I told my FH i would rather not him have strippers at his bacherlor party but if he does i wouldnt be mad. I know he is going home with me!

My FH is just going golfing in Denver and to dinner. We don't drink or anything so both o our parties will end pretty early

We haven't discussed it yet but my MOH isn't going to through me one, my FH who is a BM said if one of his friends throughs him one she will through me one equal to his. Neither of us really drink so bars are kinda out, he doesn't dance so we don't go to clubs, that pretty much elimates a lot of the typical things so I will be surpised if either of us do anything other than just a night out at a restaurant.

I've been to a completely nude strip club and it was traumatizing to say the least. A lot of strippers are married but not all of them and a lot of them give specific favors to get paid well for "lap dances". My FH is not interested but if he was I'd be livid. If you have never been to a strip club, GO. And remember how different men's minds are and how visually stimulated they can be. If my future sons ever go to a strip club I will beat them senseless.

Anyway, my FH is having a poker and cigar night. Very classy and just what he wants.

I am not the type of girl to be ok with my man going to a strip club. No freakin way. Luckily my husband is not that type of guy. He just went to hooters for dinner and beer, then they met up with me and the girls at Sherlocks Pub b/c our favorite band just happened to be playing that night.

For mine, we started out at my MOHs house and made penis cookies, yum! Then a limo took us to a fancy restaurant down town where we had a private room...then to the pub for lots of dancing.

I'm not okay with FH going to a strip club unless I'm with him. Although he isn't into it anyways-doesn't see the point of spending money, getting teased, and not getting any! LOL I would love for us and a bunch of our friends to go to Vegas and party our butts off but we just don't have the $ for it right now. So I don't think either of us is going to have any kind of party. We're pathetic. hahaha

I have no idea what he or his friends have planned and honestly don't really care to know. I had previously requested that whatever he's going to do that it be done by no later than thursday the week of the wedding. But I realize that some of his closest friends live out of town and may not be in town by thursday so that's really an unfair request. I just hope they don't keep him out too late lol.