What did your men do for their Bachelor party

FH is flying to New Orleans and staying in the french quater. I'm kinda jealous of his awesome party. But I feel bad asking my maids to shell out alot of money for my bachorlette party since they have to pay for the dress.

IDK - I said no strippers...but I bet he is thinking "what she doesnt know wont hurt her". I will be really disappointed if I find out.

That sounds like fun My bachelorette party I am doing the same thing. I told the girls dont go crazy (plus male strippers scare me haha).

He is going to vegas at the end of April for his BF bachelor party lovely. Don't worry my friend just told me the men can't touch the woman good to know.

I believe my FH is staying at a cabin for a weekend. Doing whatever guys do. I know there will be a stripper. It bothers me a little but I trust him 100%...its all in fun.

See thats the thing Meg . I do trust him but some woman can be a little too aggressive. He told me he would never hurt me so I will go and believe him. my father cheated on my mom so maybe this is why I get scared

I told DH he could go to a strip club if he wanted, but no nasty girls crawling all over him. Personally I don't like the idea but I don't want him to feel like he is on a leash. He said he wasn't really interested. He ended up going to a bar with a ton of buddies and drinking waaaaay too much.

My FH is having a pig roast in the afternoon at the BM's house and then they are driving race cars in PA. That is all tomorrow. Sunday they are going to the Capitals game. No strip clubs for him he hates them. But his buddy who is getting married in June is doing AC for his bachelor party and they are definitely hitting up the strip clubs.

Wow maybe in NJ and NY that is the most popular thing hahaha. AC yes I just went there for a bachelorette party. The men were so ugly

Our GM's are taking my FH to dinner for his bach. party. Neither one of us are into clubs...or strippers. We haven't decided what I'm doing for mine yet, but probably something mellow. He's 31 so that might have something to do with him not wanting to go to a club.

Mine isn't having one! I told him to get some guys together and just go to a baseball game or something, but it didn't work out with everyone's schedules. His dad is his BM and 1 of his GM is my cousin who lives in NY and we live in NC and the other GM is his BIL. So, no one really in his party would do anything for him. He feels weird having one because this is his 2nd marriage. I still wanted him to go out and do something!

My friend is also on her 2nd marriage but she said to take her out so we will. I think its fine to have one even if its his 2nd marriage , but thats up to him ya know. Jlam my fiance is 35 and all my friends fiances here in NJ this is what they do. I think I will move hahaha

Sapphires in NYC is the most popular bachelor party place

My FH and his friends tend to always do the same thing for thier parties...bars, and strip clubs...I dont love the idea of him going there, however I know the one in the town he'll be in doesnt allow them to touch girls, and the town has a restriction that they have to keep bottoms on...so it's more just a topless club...so I feel a little better. Besides, it's more for his friends than him, I'm sure he'll just sit at the blackjack table most of the night. Though at this particular location, I've heard that they take the bachelor up on stage, take of his belt with thier teeth, then whip him with his own belt, make fun of him, and send him back to his seat (words from my own FH's mouth after his friend's party last year).

My Husband went to Asheville for 4 day and did a bar crawl, skiing and drinking/strip club. For mine we went to a few bars in Atlanta. I think they wanted to take me to a strip club...ICK... but I got tooooo Drunk and ended up passing out at the night club... LOTS of fun but I paid for it the next day

My FH and his GM are going camping for a weekend. If my parents still own their cabin he will go there, if not, they are going to actually go camping in a tent. He advised them no strippers. We are both involved with our church and don't care much for that type of thing. For my bachelorette party we are just going to a dueling piano bar for an evening. Something mello and low key.

All of those things sound like fun I told my friends for me just dinner would be nice.

FH has been tight-lipped (is this how you spell it) about this but actually I don't think he is doing anything and I'm glad!!

FH is off to Vegas for the weekend with 2 of his best friends, they are crazy, funny and I love them to death As long as they don't get arrested (or have any "happy endings") I'm cool

Very true Sharon. Did you see that movie the hangover hahaha best movie ever (okay that only happens in the movies but still so funny). where are they staying

I LOVE that movie...I think they are staying at Bellagio. Hopefully there will be no lost teeth and marrying hookers!

I love that movie too! The best part is that the groom was on the roof the whole time and was not involved in all of the crazy stuff. I think my FH is going to Miami with his buddies, so I can expect some worrying in my near future. Not so much about the strip club, I can almost guarantee that they'll be there. More about safety and making sure they don't lose my FH somewhere.