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Kelsey
Dedicated August 2019

What are you dreading having to do?

Kelsey, on May 27, 2019 at 10:02 PM Posted in Planning 0 40
I have a month until I need to send out invitations and I just have no desire to even start addressing them. What are you dreading having to do - anything and everything wedding related?


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Latest activity by Nodyia, on May 29, 2019 at 7:14 PM
  • Cher Horowitz
    Master December 2019
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    I'm dreading addressing my invitations too, girl! I think handwriting is a nice personal touch though Smiley smile

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  • Kelly
    VIP October 2020
    Kelly ·
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    Get the marriage license. It's easy but doing paperwork is something I just hate doing.
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  • Jennifer
    Expert October 2019
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    We both have awful handwriting, so we're printing all our addresses on clear labels. Such a relief. Not something I have to do, but I loathe answering the question, "what can we get you?" It's a second wedding for both of us, and we live together. We could really, really use cash, but we can't ask for that! We have a token registry put together. I just don't know the etiquette about pointing people to that, if they don't ask specifically if we're registered...
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  • Mrsblair
    Dedicated May 2019
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    Dreading these thank you notes. The stuff is all here but we have to sit down and start writing them ASAP and I really don’t want to 😅
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  • Courtney
    Master December 2019
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    I'm dreading getting back RSVPs. Smiley ups

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  • Tina
    Super August 2019
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    This. Its hard putting yourself out there and I hate waiting to hear from ppl with a simple yes or no. Im also worried ppl will no show or just show and not RSVP. It's so annoying not knowing
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  • D
    Super July 2020
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    Getting rejection Raps and trying wrangle everyone's addresses.
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  • D
    Super July 2020
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    *RSVPs
    Dang autocorrect
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  • CDickman
    VIP September 2019
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    I spent today making labels.we just need to do fiancé side. He is on vacation next week. So he can do it then. I dead getting marriage license. Paper work and making sure you have the right stuff. I told fiancé to just bring SS card birth certificate and ID. That way we are covered. Also my dress fitting was fast I dread I am going to get the dress back a month before the wedding and it be all wrong. I actually have a white tulles skirt a hoop skirt for under it and a nice shirt saved on amazon just in case.
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  • CDickman
    VIP September 2019
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    We made ours online
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  • Shan
    Beginner September 2019
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    The same thing the invitations! Some people want people there we don't wont there! People want to voice their opinions about it all even down to the future in laws! It's crazy I'm ready for it to be over!😒
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  • Ashley
    Expert October 2021
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    Ugh. Guest list. We have an approx but it needs to be organized/finalized
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  • Trista
    VIP September 2019
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    Logistics! Day of schedule, helping my brother with writing the ceremony, picking the rest of my music. Dealing with one of my grooms obnoxious groomsmen.
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  • CDickman
    VIP September 2019
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    Oh and seating chart. I started on it. With guest I knew are coming. Then people tell you there idea.
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  • Mandi
    Master October 2020
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    All of it. Haha.
    Right now all of my focus and energy are pointed at the house we bought last week. After that, tweaking our registry and website before we send out save the dates.
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  • Amanda
    Master December 2020
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    I am dreading having to wait for rsvp's/getting people to rsvp! DX I am not patient in general and a control freak and I have to rely on others to do things?! Ugh
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  • Tara
    Master May 2020
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    Yes, getting married in front of an audience. I dread it, I would prefer to elope.
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  • Robert
    Dedicated October 2021
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    We know who we want to be caterer, who we want to make our suits, we've shortlisted the venues... which means the budget entirely hinges on how many people we choose to invite.

    So we haven't set a budget yet, and we won't know what the budget needs to be until we've worked out the guest list *and* contacted multiple vendors. Nightmare!

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  • Samantha
    Super August 2019
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    RSVPs. People just don’t understand courtesy these days... I understand everyone is busy but for a big event like a wedding, even if you’re too preoccupied to click an online link or fill in a pre stamped card...At least call the bride or groom! And let them know you’re coming or not. It may be our money we’re spending but if you get an invite it might have excluded someone else from coming. Just respond. End rant. Lol.
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  • Khalimah
    Savvy June 2019
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    I’m dreading contacting guest that haven’t RSVP’d. My deadline is in two days.
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