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Just Said Yes October 2011

Weird to have "dinner" at 4pm for Sunday Wedding?

Kodi, on August 1, 2011 at 6:27 PM Posted in Planning 0 13

Hi All,

My wedding is on a Sunday in October and we are having BBQ catered. We already sent out the invitations saying the ceremony would start at 2pm without really thinking it through. Now I am doing a "day of the wedding timeline" and just realized that puts our "dinner" we promised guests at around 4pm. Is this weird?? Any suggestions on how to push dinner off until at least 5pm? What I am trying to avoid is having the crowd start to dance and then stop the fun by interrupting it with dinner. The reception will end by 10pm. Thanks for all your help!!!

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Latest activity by Jen P., on August 2, 2011 at 7:02 PM
  • Pumpkin's Sunshine
    Master October 2011
    Pumpkin's Sunshine ·
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    I don't think so. You really would want it to end a little earlier because people have to go to work the next day. Keep it at 4.

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  • Celia Milton
    Celia Milton ·
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    Not at all. But why is your reception that long after your ceremony?

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  • mrs mom
    Super October 2011
    mrs mom ·
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    I think serving dinner at 4:00 is perfectly fine, especially on a Sunday. No one wants to be out real late when they have to go to work the next morning.

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  • Sabrina
    Master November 2014
    Sabrina ·
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    Nah, im Italian, so we eat REALLY early on Sundays anyhow, lol... like 3pm, lol....so id be ok with it! LOL Cake comes right at like what....530 or 6... MMMM and then party and late night snacks.. WOOOO lol

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  • Dena&JD
    Master April 2012
    Dena&JD ·
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    I think u will be fine

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  • Susy
    VIP September 2011
    Susy ·
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    I agree with Sabrina - we aren't Italian, but Sunday dinner is a fluxuating thing. I think 4 is kinda perfect.

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  • K
    Just Said Yes October 2011
    Kodi ·
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    Thank you ladies so much! I feel much better about it now. Can't wait for the wedding! Congrats to you all as well!!

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  • NJ Bride
    VIP September 2011
    NJ Bride ·
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    I think eating dinner at 4 is great - just make sure you let guests know on a wedding website or something the general timeline so they can play ahead with an early/light lunch. Smiley smile We're serving our "dinner" during lunch time since we picked the Sat afternoon spot so we could be within our budget. People will just be thrilled to be eating!

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  • Jakita
    Super August 2012
    Jakita ·
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    Absolutely not! i think it's very considerate actually, esp since i'm sure the majority of your guests have to go to work the next day.

    i would be happy actually bc it will probably get me home in time to catch the re-run of bridezillas!

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  • Christine
    Expert October 2011
    Christine ·
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    Our ceremony is at 1:30 and we are starting the reception at 3:00. So I am guessing dinner is going to be pretty close to your time. I figure on a Sunday, people could get home early to get ready for work the next day.

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  • Mariah  Gentry
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    Kodi, first off fabulous question!

    I think that having dinner at 4pm is just right for a Sunday wedding in October. The light will be getting poor around 5-6pm, and since it's a Sunday guests will be antsy to get home and settled before work the next day. Having your dinner at 4pm will be just about dusk in October and that will allow for a few hours of dancing and having fun post dinner! You want to make sure that you have enough time for toasts, dances, garter/flowers, and saying hello to all of your guests.

    I can't wait to see wedding photographs!

    Lots of love from Seattle,

    Mariah Gentry Photography

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  • FMS, the barefoot wife!
    Master August 2010
    FMS, the barefoot wife! ·
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    Should be okay, as long as you provide a list of things to do/places to see to your guests for the lag time between ceremony and reception.

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  • Jen P.
    Master January 2012
    Jen P. ·
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    The older folks will think it's a nice change Smiley winking jk

    I think it's just fine, but I would do a lighter dinner and maybe offer a snack a little later if your guests are hungry from dancin'!

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