Discussions from Wedding Reception

Has anyone ever done both without the groom taking off the garter off the bride? I don’t really want to have my husband do that in front of family even though it’s tradition. Can we just toss the...

Hello! Looking for some insight on my vegan meal options. Two of my very best friends are vegan and do not stray from their lifestyle. Everybody at my reception gets a plated starter, plated dinner,...

At first I feel like I want to get my moneys worth out of my dress and wear during the reception, and then I kinda want to change but Im having a hard time finding something cute to change into! Does...

I'm having a wedding next fall, and plan to have the reception early afternoon-midday due to needing to have an early ceremony within my church. I'm aiming to have it at a brewery, have a live band,...

Anyone know how to set up a virtual tip jar for a bartender? The bartender does not have venmo or paypal. He is being paid x amount plus tips, but no one carries cash anymore. We thought the virtual...

Are you banning any songs or artists? If so, which ones? We’re there any “inappropriate” songs played at other weddings you have attended and did the guests care?

My dad and I are super close. For the longest time I thought of Ancona to “Cinderella” by Steven Curtis Chapman. But I’m not sure anymore. As I have gotten older I have realized my dad isn’t just my...

What is everyone’s thoughts on disposable heavy duty plastic plates and flatware? I was not a fan but now I’m starting to think it won’t be so bad and it’s more cost friendly.

Hi everyone, We just consulted with a caterer, who talked to us about offering 1 vs 2 entrees for dinner. They suggested a grilled marinated chicken entree with green beans and mashed potatoes. We...

How much time does a bride and groom really get to themselves during the reception to eat?? Do they even get enough time to eat and relax or is it basically nonstop because everyone wants a chance to...

Did everyone make a list of songs or are you letting the DJ be in charge of this with some guidance from you?

We are having our favorite Mediterranean and Middle Eastern foods for our wedding. Not really our cultural background by blood but that's how we're rolling. Our friend group and some of family is...

Hi! My fiancé and I are having our wedding at a winery in a rustic yet elegant barn. Now, we’re trying to figure out whether to go with a highly rated BBQ caterer or a more formal (and highly rated)...

We're about 6 weeks out and are still waiting to do our tasting. I don't like leaving things to the last minute, so I wanted to get all the paper products taken care of. We're having a buffet dinner....

Hi everyone, I have a couple tricky questions about everyone's favorite issue: The bar. After an earlier discussion here we've decided to do a hosted bar for the entire reception (5 hours) of beer...

My fiancé and I decided on no assigned table seating for our reception. I figured we’re all adults here and can sit ourselves. I’ve never been a fan assigned seating it weddings I’ve been to because...

I have 6 bridesmaids & 2 MOHs; what are your thoughts on doing a group entrance to save time? Bridesmaids walk in together, MOHs a walk in together, etc

I've always wanted our first dance to be surrounded by our loved ones holding sparklers. However, we're getting married outside in a city park and we're having a huge drought so the city said no to...

Help I need a stepfather/stepdaughter song that isn’t too sentimental but isn’t to fast! My stepdad and I use to have a rough relationship and now he is like a dad to me! Thank you!