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Wedding Planner Etiquette?

Sarah, on January 6, 2020 at 10:35 PM Posted in Planning 0 3

Hi! I have a question about wedding planning etiquette.

Background: I got married over the summer and planned my entire wedding. My sister in law just got engaged and is getting married in September and asked me to be her wedding planner. She's VERY young and has no idea how to do anything when it comes to wedding planning, so I know I will be doing most of it, which I'm happy to do for her! I fully support her wedding and I believe she's ready to be married, she just doesn't have the knack for planning one and it's very overwhelming for her. I'm hoping to do wedding planning on the side, so this may be a great way for me to get my foot in the door too.

Question: One thing I know I'll have to do for her a lot is call venues, vendors (florists, rentals etc) and other people who will be assisting in the wedding. I need to call a potential venue tomorrow and I'm at a loss of how to address myself? When I call them, is it normal to address myself as the "wedding planner of ____'s wedding?" What is the proper way to explain why I'm calling. I feel like if I say "I'm calling on behalf of my sister-in-law" they'd be like "why isn't she calling herself?" lol I know I'm really overthinking this.

Thanks so much in advanced!

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Latest activity by Clíodhna, on January 16, 2020 at 8:25 AM
  • Cyndy
    Master May 2019
    Cyndy ·
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    I think it’s totally appropriate to introduce yourself as the wedding planner for _______. If that’s your role they will understand that and treat you as such. Sounds like fun when doing it for someone else.
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  • Dierdra
    Super August 2021
    Dierdra ·
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    Congrats! Sounds super fun - I agree with the above post. Even if you fumble over words calling if you say your her sister and wedding planner that will also work. Congrats to her!

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  • Clíodhna
    WeddingWire Administrator January 2030
    Clíodhna ·
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    Hey there, Lauren!
    I don’t see any issues with you introducing yourself as her wedding planner, as this is the role you are fulfilling. I hope you enjoy the process Smiley smile

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