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From the processional to the recessional - and everything in between - this is your space to get answers to everything you’ve ever wondered about vows, unity ceremonies, officiants, traditions, and more. After all, the wedding ceremony is what this whole shebang is about, right?!

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How did you choose who would be your bridesmaids?
Mrsnonewname, on October 12, 2020 at 9:16 AM

One of my best friends in university got married and did not ask me. I was hurt by this, especially since I've alwats been there for her whike some of the ladies she chose were unreliable. Fast...

Jessica, Oct 17, 2020 39 322
B&g 2021
B&g 2021, on September 30, 2020 at 12:18 PM

I am willing to make my own programs, pretty easily. I am willing to but I am wondering what other people did. I live in Placer County, and I am getting married mid-September. I was planning on making...

Miller, Oct 17, 2020 5 61
What song for bridal party?
Madelin, on October 16, 2020 at 9:34 AM

What was the song your bridal party walked/will walk down the aisle to? Did you choose or did they?

Becky, Oct 17, 2020 8 86
Processional Opinion
Lauren, on October 14, 2020 at 8:49 PM

So I was never planning on having my dad walk me down the isle, as we are not close, but he is invited and I’m not looking to hurt his feelings. That being said, our processional will be a little...

Lynnie, Oct 16, 2020 4 103
Literally can not find an officiant!!!
Lindsey, on October 14, 2020 at 4:25 PM

I’ve looked on google, messaged every one i could find on thumbtack, and checked facebook, NOTHING!!! I’m starting to get really stressed because our wedding is in 7 months. We don’t go to church, we...

Milada, Oct 16, 2020 16 182
Involving mob and mog in Ceremony
Becca, on October 13, 2020 at 3:42 PM

Hi! Does anyone have any unique ways of involving your mom and your fiancé’s mom in the ceremony? Thanks so much!

Becca, Oct 15, 2020 10 106
“Feminist” Wedding?
Ashley, on April 15, 2020 at 4:47 PM

I know this term means different things to different people. Which is awesome! My Dad is the officiant (more free-spirited ceremony) and we all know I won’t be “given away”, etc. but I’m personally...

Kimberly, Oct 15, 2020 22 304 1
No Boutonnieres
Shelly, on October 14, 2020 at 8:05 AM

Hi everyone! We are paying for the majority of the wedding ourselves, and in order to stay within budget, we have to cut back on the flowers. What are everyone's thoughts on only the groom wearing a...

Mackenzie, Oct 15, 2020 19 176
Bridesmaid Singer
Monica, on October 14, 2020 at 9:25 PM

I know it’s a little out of the normal but I would really love for one of my bridesmaids to sing the song that the bridesmaids are walking into. Can anyone think of a way to make this cute and unique...

Melle, Oct 15, 2020 4 79
B&g 2021
First Look
B&g 2021, on October 12, 2020 at 7:53 PM

I don't totally understand the "first look". Why do it? Did you do it? Why/Why not?

Kelsey, Oct 15, 2020 30 373
Vows: personal or repeat after me.
Mrsnonewname, on October 11, 2020 at 10:24 PM

Did you have peronalized or did you do repeat after me? I've been to a few weddings where I've overheard guests criticising the nuptials' vows. Due to this, I'm a bit nervous with the thought of...

Lauren, Oct 14, 2020 37 241
Judy, on October 13, 2020 at 4:10 PM

I got married in March by a JP (as my wedding had been cancelled)...Now i am planning a "wedding" for next March, 2021. My husband asked that we not have a "re-do" ceremony at the separate location...

Lynnie, Oct 14, 2020 4 85
Pink wedding ceremony dress?
Ally, on August 12, 2020 at 11:18 AM

Hey ladies! I’m getting married in church in a few months, but having my reception next year and wearing my wedding dress for the reception. Is it okay to wear a pink dress for my small Catholic...

Tré, Oct 14, 2020 7 76
Cost of officiants
Krystal, on October 12, 2020 at 11:39 PM

Is it just me or is the cost for a officiant ridiculous? First they tell you the beginning price then they say 25 for rehearsal, 1$ per mile for travel, 25 for marriage license signing. Then...

Kari, Oct 14, 2020 18 239
Wedding Ceremony Issue
Jo, on October 13, 2020 at 2:27 PM

Our original wedding was supposed to be this November but we postponed to November 20, 2021. We had this beautiful catholic church booked for 3:00pm for this year, and when we postponed they said 2:30...

Bethany, Oct 14, 2020 11 134
Ciara, on October 11, 2020 at 5:46 PM

I have my vows written and they’re kind of long. Would it be okay to have them written down and hold them while I say or should I memorize them?..

Shelly, Oct 14, 2020 14 145
Worth eloping?
Victoria, on October 13, 2020 at 4:35 PM

Hi, so to start my wedding is in May 2021. I live in Oregon that still has really strict COVID restrictions and I don’t see them letting up anytime soon. My first worry is that my wedding is indoor...

Shelly, Oct 14, 2020 11 150
Civil Ceremony but then have Wedding later
Kesley, on October 12, 2020 at 12:04 AM

Hi everyone, So I have been trying to figure out what I should do. My significant other is in the military and is currently on deployment so this has started having conversations of when we would get...

Lynnie, Oct 13, 2020 4 70
Are Ushers Necessary??
Jasmine, on October 11, 2020 at 7:38 PM

Might be a silly question but is there really a big difference in using ushers and not using ushers??

Jasmine, Oct 13, 2020 28 307
Unconventional attendants and last minute panic!
Amber, on October 12, 2020 at 3:52 AM

So here's the situation, like everyone, our wedding was affected by Covid. But groom's family is from the UK and subsequently can't attend. In addition to making out small ceremony even tinier, this...

Amber, Oct 13, 2020 5 130
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