So, my question is about my vendor not emailing me back. About 2 1/2 months or so ago my fiance and I found this venue on WW and decided to check it out. I sent a message inquiring about setting up a visit. Waited about a week with no response but the message was opened. So on day 10 I sent a follow up message stating how the place looked beautiful, but if I couldn't make an appointment for a tour I was going to have to pass. Within a day I got a response and the following weekend went and checked the place out. Of course it was perfect. My fiance and I left, discussed it over lunch and a couple days later we message her letting her know we were interested in moving forward just wanted to meet again to solidify some financial details. Another week or so goes by, no answer from the venue. So I send a little message again just saying that I know how busy she is, maybe my message got lost in the shuffle (I follow her IG and she does large weddings every weekend, so I see what she can offer). She sends me an email (not message) asking to refresh her memory on what we discussed, so I think... Okay, maybe email is better for her... I sent her an email back 3 weeks ago and have not heard a peep. But she has posted several things online.
I want this to be our venue. My dilemma is that this venue is a great fit for us but I don't want to have to chase the person organizing everything around. It was the first venue we both liked. When we got in the car that day he actually said before I could even put my seatbelt on "this is it babe" he read my mind. But we wanted to make sure so we discussed it for a couple of days.
So anyways... Am I not waiting long enough maybe? How long does it normally take a venue to respond? Am I freaking out for no reason?