Lynnie
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True or False: I had sex on my wedding night!

Lynnie, on February 5, 2019 at 11:05 AM Posted in Married Life 0 62
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Bonus question for the married couples!! Did you consummate the marriage on your wedding night? Smiley love Or did you get too carried away with the celebrations to seal the deal? Smiley shame

True or False: I had sex on my wedding night!


True or False: I had sex on my wedding night! 1



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  • Amanda
    Master December 2020
    Amanda ·
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    I know I will be, no way he will let that slide -.- haha!
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  • JustKidding
    VIP April 2018
    JustKidding ·
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    False! We didn't until a few days into the honeymoon, and honestly, we only did it because it was our honeymoon. We were SO DARN tired. From the wedding, to traveling, and then sightseeing. Sex was the last thing we wanted to do.

    Please remember everyone, you will be a lot more exhausted then you think you will be. It is not not to have sex.

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  • Summer987
    Super May 2018
    Summer987 ·
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    False. We were so tired after the wedding.
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  • Pirate & 60s Bride
    Champion March 2017
    Pirate & 60s Bride ·
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    False. Too much DIY. Hubby was sick. We were exhausted. But wedding with our nearest & dearest was amazing so not a big deal.

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  • Tara
    Master May 2020
    Tara ·
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    I most certainly will be. We are having a microwedding and brunch in the morning/early afternoon that will last 3 hours max, so I doubt we’ll be too tired.
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  • HayMrsO
    Master October 2018
    HayMrsO ·
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    Absolutely. We have a hard time keeping our hands off each other as it is, so this was no surprise.

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  • Martika
    Expert September 2019
    Martika ·
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    Haven't happen yet. But I know we will be! FORSURE!

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  • maryann
    Expert June 2019
    maryann ·
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    I would like to say we def will, but the truth is the wedding doesn't start until 6 pm and the reception isn't over until 11pm.... I think we both might be drained, but who know we may be able to mustard up some strength to be a little kinky or get a quickie in before sleep (LOL)... If not its fine we have the rest of our lives to play in the sheets

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  • Cristy
    Rockstar May 2020
    Cristy ·
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    We're not married yet, but I'm not sure we'll be able to have sex on our wedding night. Because of the honeymoon we have planned, it's looking more and more like we'll be spending our wedding night (or at least part of it) on a plane to Florida, where the cruise departs the next day!

    I actually wanted to leave a week later, so that we could relax and enjoy our wedding night, and the rest of the weekend. But FH wants to get outta dodge as soon as it's over, so we might be flying. Hmmm.........that makes me wonder.........anyone belong to the mile-high club? lol

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  • earias
    Champion December 2017
    earias ·
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    False. We were exhausted and I was sick.

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  • FutureMrsKC
    Master January 2019
    FutureMrsKC ·
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    True and false. We *tried* to but it wasn't great (sorry, husband!) it ended up being a big make out sesh and then husband fell asleep snoring, lol! I was so tired and he was rather intoxicated, so while we wanted to do it, we really just couldn't. But, we did the next morning, and on the honeymoon!

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  • Becca
    Super August 2019
    Becca ·
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    Hasn’t happened yet, but who knows! I’d like to say we definitely will, but just like others, we might be wayyyyy too tired!
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  • M
    Super October 2018
    Michelle ·
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    My husband got sick on our wedding day. Got worse and worse as the day progressed, but he is a trooper and powered through wonderfully. Unfortunately, that meant he passed out the minute we got to our hotel room. He barely got suit off before getting into bed. He was sick the first 3 days of our 9 day honeymoon.
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  • Peggy
    Master November 2019
    Peggy ·
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    My fiancé said if we don’t it’s fine we just will in the morning but I already bought special lingerie that won’t be the same in the morning!
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  • Chandra
    Master May 2019
    Chandra ·
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    Not there yet but I imagine FH might get a few too many drinks in him Haha.
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  • Colleen
    Master September 2019
    Colleen ·
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    Careful with booking
    a flight the same day as a cruise if you can help it. Say the flight is late gets canceled you miss the cruise. Sorry we are going on a cruise been watching lots of tips.
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  • Cynthia
    Expert June 2019
    Cynthia ·
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    Amanda same here!! Haha. I know hell want to go back to the hotel room right after the ceremony..
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  • J
    Master 0000
    Judith ·
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    True. Since we did not get ready with others, or book services of any kind except photography starting 3 pm for the 2 of us, we were well rested. Honey returned morning flight from a business trip, trade off for the next week off in a new job. We had a late morning brunch after I slept in and he joined me when he got in at 8 am-10:30. I even took off my dress after our photos of just us on Inn grounds, 3-4pm, then took a nap, and and at 5:45 pm got up, showered, dressed, did hair and makeup, done in 45 min. Then Mom helped me with dress and headpiece, along with my godmother, one of MOH. Other MOH and FMIL guided WP and some family through group pics starting an hour before the wedding, for 30 min. So after 7pm start, up socializing til 3am, we still had energy, and nothing planned til 11 am. I think this group getting ready fad really cuts in to many bride's day for 4-6 hours, waiting for each other for pro services, posing for photos, drinking mimosas or whatever. As a BM and MOH I always hated and resisted hours and hours together on wedding mornings, and no sleepovers at venue as a group the night before, bridal pajama parties. Boring waste of time that leaves people exhausted before an afternoon or evening wedding starts. Not doing any prep or group stuff wedding day was great...and so was wedding night.
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  • Laura
    Rockstar October 2019
    Laura ·
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    For my first marriage, yes, barely.....I plan to this time...hopefully...we're old lol

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  • Cristy
    Rockstar May 2020
    Cristy ·
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    Thank you Colleen for the tip. I actually hadn't thought about that. The flight would actually be the night before the cruise, but with the time difference between CA and FLA, we could be scheduled to arrive shortly before the ship departs. So, this is why I'm still trying to talk FH into waiting--even a few days--before we take off. I'm going to remind him of how flights get delayed and/or cancelled all the time. We have plenty of time to hash this out, so at this point I'm not worried.

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